Hey you all, I had a question and was curious who here has dated a
exotic dancer here and is still with them? I really find it hard to stay
with some one like this cause there always around guys and alchole so I
was just curious if it works or not? I dated one and later was cheated
on by another guy that she met at a bar that she worked at but I don't
care about her now cause she was not worth my time after what she did to
me and then she wanted to play it as if she was not cheating on me.

I mean she was going behind my back and seeing this guy with her 9 yr
old son and the son is who told me about it and he did not want me to
tell his mom that I knew so I played it cool and did not want him to
loose his trust to me and so I told her that I found out that she was
seeing him through my sister who saposley told me that she seen you the
girl at a restaurant with this guy and then she told me everything after
I brought it up and then she did not want to tell me cause she thought I
would get jelious but then she calls this guy on the hours that I am not
around her cause later when she dated him again and I found out about it
I was mad and searched through her phone and found the numbers that she
diles and they were all to this guy and at the hours I was not around
her and was always around her at the time....

Then I called her and she said she went out with some of her friends to
see a movie and I drove by her house and there was a pick up truck there
so I know that holds a toltal of 3 people so it was her and her son and
this guy cause it was too cold for some one else to ride in the back...
hehe... I asked why it took so long to answer the phone and she said she
ran up stairs so she could take her shoes off and get the phone which
she left up there but she never leaves her phone up there I know and
then she never takes her shoes off up stairs eaither so my gut was
telling me she was cheating and she wanted me too so I left her and she
blames it's my fault but she can't dig up anything on me but one thing
and saposley I was flirting with some girl that use to work at my job
and she over heard me on the phone telling some guy that I was saying
some flirty remarks to her...

I don't know but I thought I should vent and ask if any one has been
cheated before with these girls and if thats pretty normal with there
jobs.

Regards, Rocxy Lemmon

i got a better one my last one told me "God had chosen her for
singleness"

Singleness isn't even a word


Top that one!

exotic dancers are just that.
saleman lies, so why would they be truthfull to their mate.
exotic dancers job is to turn men on-right
they can be turn on to,buy danceing, so
how bad do you want one,can you acpet the work they do?
hey it and job--could be worst, could be an street walker.
do you buy a car, then get mad because it not new? in relashionships,
you get into, you have to make it work. be faithfull and not question
every thing the other do.
i have know some exotic dancers, and they are only seious about the one
they live with.
yess madbe have sex on side, but not love one the side.
if you don't like the money they makeing,
get an job
and they would stop.
they don't really like it ether.

dale

mikey3457 Thanks for the reply and I don't think I can top that one
man...lol...lol...

thanx for letting me know there is atleast one other person that has had
my experience....

Regards, Rocxy lemmon

dale I apresheate your help on both my problems and I have taken your
thoughts and wander about the one that is to be faithfull? now I can
only be so faithful but being that there around other guys and knowing
and being with some one liker that are 2 diffrent situations we are in
so I can't be as faithful as I want and she should had just told me that
she was with a guy at that restaraunt and I would had not cared really I
would had not and yes I took her job in to consideration and I did not
care but I know she would not like it if I was a male striper for house
partys......

thnx again....

Regards, Rocxy Lemmon