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Topic: Chi si marita per amore
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Thu 06/12/08 06:30 AM
"Chi si marita per amore, di notte ha piacere, e di giorno ha dolore" - Italian proverb

It means:

She who marries for love has pleasure by night, and suffering by day.

What has been your experience?

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Thu 06/12/08 06:32 AM
wow, that's a really good saying and very true....

marriage is a lot more than just 'love' it takes work, commitment, understanding, and patience!

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Thu 06/12/08 06:39 AM
Edited by Goofball73 on Thu 06/12/08 06:47 AM
Oh yeah, well I know the great and almighty English proverb of....."Me So Horny.......Me Love You Long Time.", brought to us by the great and philosophical Luke Skywalker and the 2 Live Crew!bigsmile

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Thu 06/12/08 06:46 AM
Makes since.

I think being in love is what people say when they are feeling passion. The rest of the stuff is for when passion is gone.

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Thu 06/12/08 04:43 PM
cloudedsunshine, I agree.

The proverb also speaks to the folk belief that if you marry mainly for looks, passion, and chemistry, you'll have a grand time in bed; but better be prepared for suffering, hardship, and pain in the marriage. Why? Because you didn't use your head to make a good match.

Thoughts?

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Thu 06/12/08 05:02 PM

wow, that's a really good saying and very true....

marriage is a lot more than just 'love' it takes work, commitment, understanding, and patience!


Truer words have never been spoken

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Thu 06/12/08 05:02 PM

"Chi si marita per amore, di notte ha piacere, e di giorno ha dolore" - Italian proverb

It means:

She who marries for love has pleasure by night, and suffering by day.

What has been your experience?


(((angel))) hi love and how have you beenflowerforyou

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Thu 06/12/08 05:14 PM
My marriage was a disasterohwell

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Thu 06/12/08 05:29 PM

"Chi si marita per amore, di notte ha piacere, e di giorno ha dolore" - Italian proverb

It means:

She who marries for love has pleasure by night, and suffering by day.

What has been your experience?
Marriage sucks..that is all i knownoway

bad_girl's photo
Thu 06/12/08 05:36 PM

My marriage was a disasterohwell


All or mine were, no man should smack a womanbrokenheart sad

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 06/12/08 05:37 PM


My marriage was a disasterohwell


All or mine were, no man should smack a womanbrokenheart sad










Give me his address:angry:

bad_girl's photo
Thu 06/12/08 05:40 PM
Thanks love but there was three and I took care of them in my own special waydevil :wink: I was to passive and let them run me into the ground, but no morenoway noway



My marriage was a disasterohwell


All or mine were, no man should smack a womanbrokenheart sad










Give me his address:angry:

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Thu 06/12/08 05:47 PM

Thanks love but there was three and I took care of them in my own special waydevil :wink: I was to passive and let them run me into the ground, but no morenoway noway



My marriage was a disasterohwell


All or mine were, no man should smack a womanbrokenheart sad










Give me his address:angry:










Thats rite, don't let anybody put their hands on you!!

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Thu 06/12/08 05:49 PM
Sad to say, I was young and foolish, didn't know any better and it happened, but no more, age has made me wiser


Thanks love but there was three and I took care of them in my own special waydevil :wink: I was to passive and let them run me into the ground, but no morenoway noway



My marriage was a disasterohwell


All or mine were, no man should smack a womanbrokenheart sad










Give me his address:angry:










Thats rite, don't let anybody put their hands on you!!

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Thu 06/12/08 08:28 PM


"Chi si marita per amore, di notte ha piacere, e di giorno ha dolore" - Italian proverb

It means:

She who marries for love has pleasure by night, and suffering by day.

What has been your experience?


(((angel))) hi love and how have you beenflowerforyou

(((bad_girl))) flowerforyou Hello!

Things could be better; I'm in search of a new job. frown

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Thu 06/12/08 08:29 PM

"Chi si marita per amore, di notte ha piacere, e di giorno ha dolore" - Italian proverb

It means:

She who marries for love has pleasure by night, and suffering by day.

What has been your experience?



why is it suffering by day

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Thu 06/12/08 08:30 PM

cloudedsunshine, I agree.

The proverb also speaks to the folk belief that if you marry mainly for looks, passion, and chemistry, you'll have a grand time in bed; but better be prepared for suffering, hardship, and pain in the marriage. Why? Because you didn't use your head to make a good match.

Thoughts?


well then it's referring more to the sexual match .. than the emotional love that could easily give you joy 24-7 :wink:

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Thu 06/12/08 08:32 PM
Heh. Yep; funny how the Italian mind works. bigsmile

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Thu 06/12/08 08:34 PM
wisdom is passed to us from "old sayings"......


i should listen

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Fri 06/13/08 03:31 AM


"Chi si marita per amore, di notte ha piacere, e di giorno ha dolore" - Italian proverb

It means:

She who marries for love has pleasure by night, and suffering by day.

What has been your experience?



why is it suffering by day

Its just this particular region in Italy's way of conceptualizing the difference between when we make love and when we are attending to other things in our marriage. I'm sure they aren't saying you can only have sex at night. lol flowerforyou

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