is true that cussin and harrasing other members is wrong, and I agree
that if we do it after we where warned about it, we will be banned.

some people are to dam sensitive, if you post a tread, your going to get
feedback

good or bad feedback is feedback as long as they are not harrasing you
or insulting you or being rude with you, why get upset if some one
doesn't agree with you, this is going to be very lonely and people are
going to be afraid to post on any tread

some of the people who got banned deserved to get banned for getting out
of line disrespecting other members, but now I see people posting a
tread, and if you disagree with what they are stating or have a negative
answer than you are a disrespectful person,
if you going to post a tread please, spect the answers people really
want to post, if is negative to your tread so be it
everyone has different point of view, and if we all going to agree with
everything just because you are to sensitive to deal with the answer to
your tread then don't post questions, is normal for people to express
how they feel about some things
and is not fair that others have to agree with something even if they
don't.. so just be mindful that others have the right to disagree with
your point of view,,,,STOP BEING SO SENTIVE..
AND THIS IS FOR NO ONE I PARTICULAR JUST FOR SENSITIVE
PEOPLE.. being honest with your answers doesn't mean
disrespect.

.

I say FK THEM ALL HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

Well said, Morena!

Most people that swear don't realize bc it's normal to them but other
times it's kids u'r dealing with. If you are gonna put something like
that there just edit it so u won't get banned.

I know els, and is sad that people get so upset when they don't get a
positive response all the time!!

all ill say is i agree with ya enough said from me

well said morena ...we are all different!

I tend to swear a lot in person but try to tone it down with the ladies
unless they are like me and in Mass. it's pretty normal but yeah I
totally know what u mean. Lotta guys just say that stuff to show off but
some of us just speak our minds and forget until it's too late.

It seems like -- from the threads I've seen that have degenerated into
outright attacks -- that a lot of the problem stems from people not
knowing the difference between an opinion and a slam. The whole issue
with the most recent big blowup seemed to be one person stated she had a
preference, and some other people took it to mean they were being put
down because they didn't fit that particular preference. And then it
was just a lot of blather about who is too stupid and who is too fat,
blah blah blah, which has nothing to do with the original question!

I agree with you, Morena, some people are just too sensitive about
things that really don't warrant that much thought....people are
entitled to have preferences and state those preferences, as long as
nobody is being slammed or attacked -- and if someone who's reading the
post just doesn't happen to fit within those parameters, well, so what?

I would guess most of us have our own preferences, maybe we discuss them
here and maybe we don't, but the point is that WE don't see them as
putdowns. There simply criteria of what we're looking for in another
person. And what's wrong with that?

lex,, your right, soooo right!!

Well put Morena! Folks already have the "Know How"; they just need to
take the extra step and apply themselves before they blurt out (@%!?@$#)
poor language. It's simple -just for a second-start thinking about
others and how they would feel-Don't be so selfish! The world is what we
make it!

It's all in just being respectful to others. Words can make or break a
person. It is not hard to re-read our words before we click the post
reply and make sure we do not offend someone with what we say. As long
as you answer the question and not attack the messenger then everything
is okay. But if they don't like what you say and attack well like they
say it takes a bigger person to walk away then it does to dish out the
words just to bring someone down. All you have to do is give them a
little rope and they will hang themselves anyway while you sit back and
watch!

tx i agree with you on the rope thing but sometimese there are people
who get attacked and kicked off of here for protecting and utilizing
there freedom of speech im confused about this and feel if this site is
about banning people for saying what they feel as long as its not a
direct attack im on the wrong site i know ive not been here long and im
sure people dont really care how i feel but im utilyzing my freedom of
speech thanks morena for bringing this to attention

Missingyou sometimes there is another side to the coin we see you have
only been here a short time like you said sometimes there might be a
side to that coin you did not see. Believe me I have yet to see someone
banned on this site that did not deserve it for what they have done or
said and some was given more than one chance for they had already been
banned before and was allowed to return. Van & Mike to me have done a
very good job with this site it is up to us to respect the next person.
Freedom of speech is fine if you do not offend others with your words.
There is no reason to be vulgar or do a personal attack on another for
no reason. When you do these things you have taken the rights away from
someone else for your own personal pleasure. It is all in treating
others the way you would like to be treated yourself!

hey tx i agree with you on every aspect u said i dont know and i guess
thats what makes it hard for me to understand i have enjoyed talking to
people on here and want to see the insanity stop but im not sure why it
even started but i have one person who i liked as a friend and didnt
read everything he wrote but most and was confused when he got either
banned or left due to attacks thats all if u can enlighten me please
feel free im open minded and try to see everyones side

there is no problem with someone expressing feelings or thoughts here,
this site is great to be on,
but the cussing is out of control, you can tell some one exactly how you
feel, without cussing or disrespecting that person, cuz I have done so,,
how would you feel is someone call you a *****, only because you stated
your opinion on a topic? really bad Im sure
that is what is not aloud here and on any other dating site
people can't do that!!!!

But my point is on some people who post a tread and when you don't agree
with what they are saying they get upset and defensive I think that if
you post a tread and you get a negative response is should be all good,
because that is just their opinion, has nothing to do with the site, the
site is doing a great job, banning who ever disrespect the members of
this community, and it feels better to know that someone can't just come
out and cusse you out without consequence you feel free to be your self
without no one hurting you or disrespecting you,
just that the sensitive people that don't like to hear what others
really feel shouldn't post question that they will have to hear some
comments on it, some members will move on without posting but some will
post and they will have to understand that this is a community people
have different point of view on things...

Missingyou e-mail me I tried to email you but can't according to your
settings if you e-mail me first then think I can e-mail you back lol

txs you don't email me now Im jealous!!

you are my first friend on jsh, how could you Txs..