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Topic: age gaps n dating...
uk_bloke's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:30 PM
what would you see as being an 'acceptable' age gap between 2 people???

lets say, for example, a 35 year old guy... what would you consider to be the youngest and/or oldest limits for him to date??

erm, im askin' on behalf of a friend...

dirtyblonde007's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:31 PM
as long as she is over 18 it shouldn't matter. my ex was 11 years older... my dad was twice the age of my mom.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:32 PM
Age is a number, get past it.

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Wed 06/11/08 02:33 PM
oh an 18 yr old might to be able to keep up with me

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Wed 06/11/08 02:33 PM
(cocks head)

flame1cutie's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:35 PM
Age is a matter of mind. If you don't mind it don't matter.

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Wed 06/11/08 02:35 PM
says the 35 year old


I would say, 18 is legal

boneyjoe's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:35 PM
10 years older an maby 15 younger,,,,,,,,,,is that a good number

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Wed 06/11/08 02:36 PM

what would you see as being an 'acceptable' age gap between 2 people???

lets say, for example, a 35 year old guy... what would you consider to be the youngest and/or oldest limits for him to date??

erm, im askin' on behalf of a friend...
"the old friend trick"!laugh laugh

uk_bloke's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:37 PM
some nice answers there.

it kinda bothers me in some ways, but i know that it really shouldnt make any difference at all, but i dunno, i guess i just remember what i was like at her age... does that make any sense?? nah, prob not!

if i'm enjoying myself and smiling, then im happy :)

uk_bloke's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:38 PM

says the 35 year old


I would say, 18 is legal


16 is legal here... but that dont make it morally right!

dirtyblonde007's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:38 PM

some nice answers there.

it kinda bothers me in some ways, but i know that it really shouldnt make any difference at all, but i dunno, i guess i just remember what i was like at her age... does that make any sense?? nah, prob not!

if i'm enjoying myself and smiling, then im happy :)


if you're uncomfortable, then she's prob not "the one". the one you are supposed to be with should make you feel at ease.

Sir_Galahad's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:39 PM
I'll be 38 this year. My personal limits run about ten years on either side. Using these limits, I've gone all the way to the lower end of my limit...and been disappointed really, because that "kid" and I really had nothing in common. Just because she was attracted to me does not mean we shared the same "background" that fed our beliefs and opinions...and made them mesh.

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Wed 06/11/08 02:40 PM
idk...it's personal

my range is from 32 to 74.....not a day older...well...until tomorrow..

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:40 PM
I've been with people 15 years older and 20 years less than me. It really doesn't matter.

bad_girl's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:40 PM
If you two care about each other, just remember age is just a number

RoamingOrator's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:40 PM


says the 35 year old


I would say, 18 is legal


16 is legal here... but that dont make it morally right!


Doesn't make it morally wrong either. Here's a quote for you:

"When a womans under 18 she's protected by law, over 65 and she's protected by nature, anywhere in between, she's fair game." Cary Grant - Operation Pettycoat

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:41 PM
Only have really dated older up to about 15 years, as for the going younger....something I have tried yet

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 06/11/08 02:43 PM
+/- 5 years... IMO though :tongue:

TheShadow's photo
Wed 06/11/08 05:30 PM

Age is a number, get past it.


When your at your age i can see that. I can't see myself knowing i'm going to be 38 in August being with an 18 your old little girl that is still growing up and learng about life. And i'm not into traning.

Yeah maybe some can see themselves doing that at my age. But i can't see being with somone that young and trying to have a family when they still have the childish personality.

I wont go more then ten years younger then me and 5 older.

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