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Edited by
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There is no way to force payment from a slacker, regardless of whether you can find him/her or not. In reference to rape, it may or may not work. There will always be the question on percentage of match if not 100%.
No there is no way to force someone to pay their child support. However there is plenty of room in the jail house for those that refuse to follow a court order. Ask my ex, she missed visiting one by two days for not paying her child support. She thought she could get away with not working, and thus claim she could not pay the support due to lack of income. Michigan's courts turned that thinking process around real fast. So I still say, get the dna testing done. Find the parent and make them either pay their support or go to jail. I garuntee most parents will choose to pay, if jail time starts getting enforced, rather than spend the rest of their lives in jail. Daniel this is good in theory but not logical. Where there is a will there is a way to avoid responsibilities. The jails are not full of child support avoiders as the courts are overcrowded not because they dont know where the slackers are. As for your guarantee also illogical, better said, you think for you cannot guarantee the actions of others. re: mugging (identification) Rather wait until I was reported missing than be profiled or entered into a data base. JMO |
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I don't know if anyone else has suggested this as far as up in government before, so don't think I am quoting an article or anything here. I just have an opinion on something and want to know what your ideas are. I believe that all children when they are born should be required to have their dna tested, and databased. This is for several reasons too. 1. It would help increase the likelihood of finding something wrong (like parkinsons disease, or leukemia, etc) sooner, thus having a better chance of resolving the problem. 2. It will take some time, but after so long, when children are born and have their dna registered, if the father ran away during the pregnancy, the dna can be matched against the database (just like fingerprinting in crimes) and the father can be identified, and thus made to pay child support. In the case of pregnancies by rape, this could also be an effective tool, as not only would they have the name of the father, but obviously they would have the rapist as well. 3. If for some reason you are in an accident, and unconcious, the hospital can run a dna check on you, and find out who you are and let your family know. There are several more good reasons for this to be done, but I am going to wait and see how much people come in and start bashing my head against the wall fro even considering the idea of a national registry, which would be a restriction against their personal freedoms and such. Even though you are required to have a blood test done at birth now in order to get your blood type. I just ask one simple consideration folks. If you can not come in and remain calm and rational, please do not post. There is no need for ranting or crying out servitude, etc. It all sounds good in theory.........however with human nature being what it is and the Gov't being subject to said human nature it would never be limited to what is stated here. Someone down the line would expand what the info can be used for giving what sounds like a legit reason and before you know it we do have a version of the movie "Gattica"........i belive the potential cons far outway the potential pros |
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There is no way to force payment from a slacker, regardless of whether you can find him/her or not. In reference to rape, it may or may not work. There will always be the question on percentage of match if not 100%.
No there is no way to force someone to pay their child support. However there is plenty of room in the jail house for those that refuse to follow a court order. Ask my ex, she missed visiting one by two days for not paying her child support. She thought she could get away with not working, and thus claim she could not pay the support due to lack of income. Michigan's courts turned that thinking process around real fast. So I still say, get the dna testing done. Find the parent and make them either pay their support or go to jail. I garuntee most parents will choose to pay, if jail time starts getting enforced, rather than spend the rest of their lives in jail. Daniel this is good in theory but not logical. Where there is a will there is a way to avoid responsibilities. The jails are not full of child support avoiders as the courts are overcrowded not because they dont know where the slackers are. As for your guarantee also illogical, better said, you think for you cannot guarantee the actions of others. re: mugging (identification) Rather wait until I was reported missing than be profiled or entered into a data base. JMO Nothing is ever perfect hun, as you said someone willing to can always find a way. But should we always say no to an idea simply because it is not perfect and foolproof? As you said nothing is foolproof. |
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There is no way to force payment from a slacker, regardless of whether you can find him/her or not. In reference to rape, it may or may not work. There will always be the question on percentage of match if not 100%.
No there is no way to force someone to pay their child support. However there is plenty of room in the jail house for those that refuse to follow a court order. Ask my ex, she missed visiting one by two days for not paying her child support. She thought she could get away with not working, and thus claim she could not pay the support due to lack of income. Michigan's courts turned that thinking process around real fast. So I still say, get the dna testing done. Find the parent and make them either pay their support or go to jail. I garuntee most parents will choose to pay, if jail time starts getting enforced, rather than spend the rest of their lives in jail. Daniel this is good in theory but not logical. Where there is a will there is a way to avoid responsibilities. The jails are not full of child support avoiders as the courts are overcrowded not because they dont know where the slackers are. As for your guarantee also illogical, better said, you think for you cannot guarantee the actions of others. re: mugging (identification) Rather wait until I was reported missing than be profiled or entered into a data base. JMO Nothing is ever perfect hun, as you said someone willing to can always find a way. But should we always say no to an idea simply because it is not perfect and foolproof? As you said nothing is foolproof. Should we also assume to speak for the masses. I only shared my personal opinion. I would be totally against it, but thats me. |
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There is no way to force payment from a slacker, regardless of whether you can find him/her or not. In reference to rape, it may or may not work. There will always be the question on percentage of match if not 100%.
No there is no way to force someone to pay their child support. However there is plenty of room in the jail house for those that refuse to follow a court order. Ask my ex, she missed visiting one by two days for not paying her child support. She thought she could get away with not working, and thus claim she could not pay the support due to lack of income. Michigan's courts turned that thinking process around real fast. So I still say, get the dna testing done. Find the parent and make them either pay their support or go to jail. I garuntee most parents will choose to pay, if jail time starts getting enforced, rather than spend the rest of their lives in jail. Daniel this is good in theory but not logical. Where there is a will there is a way to avoid responsibilities. The jails are not full of child support avoiders as the courts are overcrowded not because they dont know where the slackers are. As for your guarantee also illogical, better said, you think for you cannot guarantee the actions of others. re: mugging (identification) Rather wait until I was reported missing than be profiled or entered into a data base. JMO Nothing is ever perfect hun, as you said someone willing to can always find a way. But should we always say no to an idea simply because it is not perfect and foolproof? As you said nothing is foolproof. Should we also assume to speak for the masses. I only shared my personal opinion. I would be totally against it, but thats me. I am all for getting rapists off the streets. I could go on and on with the benefits, but that would take too much time and space |
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There is no way to force payment from a slacker, regardless of whether you can find him/her or not. In reference to rape, it may or may not work. There will always be the question on percentage of match if not 100%.
No there is no way to force someone to pay their child support. However there is plenty of room in the jail house for those that refuse to follow a court order. Ask my ex, she missed visiting one by two days for not paying her child support. She thought she could get away with not working, and thus claim she could not pay the support due to lack of income. Michigan's courts turned that thinking process around real fast. So I still say, get the dna testing done. Find the parent and make them either pay their support or go to jail. I garuntee most parents will choose to pay, if jail time starts getting enforced, rather than spend the rest of their lives in jail. Daniel this is good in theory but not logical. Where there is a will there is a way to avoid responsibilities. The jails are not full of child support avoiders as the courts are overcrowded not because they dont know where the slackers are. As for your guarantee also illogical, better said, you think for you cannot guarantee the actions of others. re: mugging (identification) Rather wait until I was reported missing than be profiled or entered into a data base. JMO Nothing is ever perfect hun, as you said someone willing to can always find a way. But should we always say no to an idea simply because it is not perfect and foolproof? As you said nothing is foolproof. Should we also assume to speak for the masses. I only shared my personal opinion. I would be totally against it, but thats me. I am all for getting rapists off the streets. I could go on and on with the benefits, but that would take too much time and space Not with the benefits as you state, but with your opinion. Question to you, how do you foresee this type of testing as a form of assistance? Getting rapists off the streets, should be a priority, but also relate to the ones that never report the occurrence. Profiling/databasing will not help in my opinion. |
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Okay the number 2 one presents issues because forcing someone in the life of a child who does not want to be there is just wrong. I did not say force the would be parent into the childs life. I said collect the child support they should be paying due to the fact that they are a parent. I am sorry if you find that offensive, but the child in question has teh RIGHT to expect you as their parent (any parent not you personally) to step forward and represent their legal interests towards the child support, even if all you do is place it in savings for them when they grow older. My wife ran away when the youngest was 2. doing the math for her 88 dollars a month over 15 years is almost 8,000 dollars per child if saved. Thats before interest and whatnot. Might not seem like much, but it is a good start on a college education if ntohing else. So yes, dna testing so that all indigent parents can be found and made to pay support is a very good reason. And remember just because you have to pay support, does nto garuntee you have contact witht he child. Excuse me. Most guys equate paying money to the right to pop in and out of the childs life when ever they want. No offense but HELL NO. Trust me, it would be best to be poor than the emotional damage that does trust me. most women think the same thing when it is them that pay the support. But guess what hun? Their opinion doesn't matter, it is what you and the courts decide. If you do not want them in the child's life, and have valid reasoning not to let them in, then you go to the court and the court orders no contact, while still paying support. However, if you do not have a valid reason for denying contact, then yes the other parent DOES have the right to pop in if they want to. Nothing you can do about it. SO by all means, that being the way it is, again, you should be willing to do what it takes to secure your child the money that they have a legal right to. And DNA testing is one way to doso. Okay mister. Listen here, how about the sporatic in and out that some men/women do. It is psychologically damaging to young kids and even older ones. Second of all do you have any idea how horrible and difficult it is to get a person declared unfit enough for rights to be yanked. Let me tell you a personally know of cases where "dad" comes in and out of the children's lives every 6-7 months but he is still entitled to every other weekend. "mom" has tried to get visitation yanked because the children cry over it. "stepdad" wants to adopt "dad" won't allow it. Oh and he has beat the kids, and neglected them. There was even a FOUNDED report of child abuse. So I am sorry your idea doesn't fly. |
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Watch the movie Gattaca .....it will open you eyes to dna testing |
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Watch the movie Gattaca .....it will open you eyes to dna testing that would be the next step...............there is always "something" to be improved on and in my opinion you just don't open doors you can't be sure of ever shutting. |
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I don't know if anyone else has suggested this as far as up in government before, so don't think I am quoting an article or anything here. I just have an opinion on something and want to know what your ideas are. I believe that all children when they are born should be required to have their dna tested, and databased. This is for several reasons too. 1. It would help increase the likelihood of finding something wrong (like parkinsons disease, or leukemia, etc) sooner, thus having a better chance of resolving the problem. 2. It will take some time, but after so long, when children are born and have their dna registered, if the father ran away during the pregnancy, the dna can be matched against the database (just like fingerprinting in crimes) and the father can be identified, and thus made to pay child support. In the case of pregnancies by rape, this could also be an effective tool, as not only would they have the name of the father, but obviously they would have the rapist as well. 3. If for some reason you are in an accident, and unconcious, the hospital can run a dna check on you, and find out who you are and let your family know. There are several more good reasons for this to be done, but I am going to wait and see how much people come in and start bashing my head against the wall fro even considering the idea of a national registry, which would be a restriction against their personal freedoms and such. Even though you are required to have a blood test done at birth now in order to get your blood type. I just ask one simple consideration folks. If you can not come in and remain calm and rational, please do not post. There is no need for ranting or crying out servitude, etc. I can see your points about it being useful if used within the set guidelines. However someone would expand those guidelines and then that would open the door to all kinds of abuse of the system. From playing with genetics (gene manipulation) right through to profiling for possible criminal tendencies. |
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whole idea sounds too much like communism to me
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whole idea sounds too much like communism to me you can say that again and make brooke on it |
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Edited by
Fanta46
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Thu 06/12/08 06:21 AM
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This is not a new idea. Insurance companies have been pushing for it for years.
Their idea is to use the common genes that mark DNA of people with diabetes, breast cancer, heart disease, etc. They want to use this information to group people. These markers although not one hundred percent conclusive often show up years before the person actually shows signs of the medical problem. Diabetes for instance often does not strike a person before their middle ages. Many times the disease never becomes active. Those with the markers will be charged different rates for health and life insurance. They could also be refused employment in certain careers etc. There are benefits to law enforcement and benefits to medical research, but you will also lose personal privacy and individual rights in the process. I guess it comes down to how much you value these rights. |
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Edited by
daniel48706
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Thu 06/12/08 03:15 PM
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There is no way to force payment from a slacker, regardless of whether you can find him/her or not. In reference to rape, it may or may not work. There will always be the question on percentage of match if not 100%.
No there is no way to force someone to pay their child support. However there is plenty of room in the jail house for those that refuse to follow a court order. Ask my ex, she missed visiting one by two days for not paying her child support. She thought she could get away with not working, and thus claim she could not pay the support due to lack of income. Michigan's courts turned that thinking process around real fast. So I still say, get the dna testing done. Find the parent and make them either pay their support or go to jail. I garuntee most parents will choose to pay, if jail time starts getting enforced, rather than spend the rest of their lives in jail. Daniel this is good in theory but not logical. Where there is a will there is a way to avoid responsibilities. The jails are not full of child support avoiders as the courts are overcrowded not because they dont know where the slackers are. As for your guarantee also illogical, better said, you think for you cannot guarantee the actions of others. re: mugging (identification) Rather wait until I was reported missing than be profiled or entered into a data base. JMO Nothing is ever perfect hun, as you said someone willing to can always find a way. But should we always say no to an idea simply because it is not perfect and foolproof? As you said nothing is foolproof. Should we also assume to speak for the masses. I only shared my personal opinion. I would be totally against it, but thats me. I am all for getting rapists off the streets. I could go on and on with the benefits, but that would take too much time and space Not with the benefits as you state, but with your opinion. Question to you, how do you foresee this type of testing as a form of assistance? Getting rapists off the streets, should be a priority, but also relate to the ones that never report the occurrence. Profiling/databasing will not help in my opinion. Again it is not perfect. Like you mentioned, what about those who dont report rape? the only thing I can see we could do is better education, and raising of our children so that they have enough respect and self confidence that if they are attacked they can feel safe with going to the police and not worry about being victimized more. I never mentioned anythign about profiling eiother, at elast that I am aware of. I hate the idea of profiling, it is a form of stereotyping, and as far as I am concerned it is a form of discrimination. Databasing CAN help though, depending on what it is you database. |
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Okay the number 2 one presents issues because forcing someone in the life of a child who does not want to be there is just wrong. I did not say force the would be parent into the childs life. I said collect the child support they should be paying due to the fact that they are a parent. I am sorry if you find that offensive, but the child in question has teh RIGHT to expect you as their parent (any parent not you personally) to step forward and represent their legal interests towards the child support, even if all you do is place it in savings for them when they grow older. My wife ran away when the youngest was 2. doing the math for her 88 dollars a month over 15 years is almost 8,000 dollars per child if saved. Thats before interest and whatnot. Might not seem like much, but it is a good start on a college education if ntohing else. So yes, dna testing so that all indigent parents can be found and made to pay support is a very good reason. And remember just because you have to pay support, does nto garuntee you have contact witht he child. Excuse me. Most guys equate paying money to the right to pop in and out of the childs life when ever they want. No offense but HELL NO. Trust me, it would be best to be poor than the emotional damage that does trust me. most women think the same thing when it is them that pay the support. But guess what hun? Their opinion doesn't matter, it is what you and the courts decide. If you do not want them in the child's life, and have valid reasoning not to let them in, then you go to the court and the court orders no contact, while still paying support. However, if you do not have a valid reason for denying contact, then yes the other parent DOES have the right to pop in if they want to. Nothing you can do about it. SO by all means, that being the way it is, again, you should be willing to do what it takes to secure your child the money that they have a legal right to. And DNA testing is one way to doso. Okay mister. Listen here, how about the sporatic in and out that some men/women do. It is psychologically damaging to young kids and even older ones. Second of all do you have any idea how horrible and difficult it is to get a person declared unfit enough for rights to be yanked. Let me tell you a personally know of cases where "dad" comes in and out of the children's lives every 6-7 months but he is still entitled to every other weekend. "mom" has tried to get visitation yanked because the children cry over it. "stepdad" wants to adopt "dad" won't allow it. Oh and he has beat the kids, and neglected them. There was even a FOUNDED report of child abuse. So I am sorry your idea doesn't fly. First of all calm donw, and stop getting aggressive. I never said none of this happens. I know it happens. Secondly, what does naything you just said have to do with dna databasing, in order to find indigent parents and help make them pay support for their child? Finally\, keep in mind I am one of the close to one percent of men who HAS gotten parental rights removed fromt he mother due to health and safety concerns with the childre. I CAN garuntee you I have been through a harder tiome doing this than any mother you know trying to reove from the father. I also have to ask, in the case where the mother ahs tried to remove, has she done EVERYTHING she could to support the father seeing the kids? Or has she done everythign she could to cause problems with it, like so many women do? I am not syaing either side of it as I dont know. but none of this has anythign to do witht he topic at hand. |
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This is not a new idea. Insurance companies have been pushing for it for years. Their idea is to use the common genes that mark DNA of people with diabetes, breast cancer, heart disease, etc. They want to use this information to group people. These markers although not one hundred percent conclusive often show up years before the person actually shows signs of the medical problem. Diabetes for instance often does not strike a person before their middle ages. Many times the disease never becomes active. Those with the markers will be charged different rates for health and life insurance. They could also be refused employment in certain careers etc. There are benefits to law enforcement and benefits to medical research, but you will also lose personal privacy and individual rights in the process. I guess it comes down to how much you value these rights. Fanta, Diabetes can strike before middle age. Ever heard of juvenile, or Type 1 diabetes? It strikes children and young adults. |
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Edited by
Fanta46
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Thu 06/12/08 06:57 PM
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Of course hiker.
I was referring to insurance companies charging rates according to what future illnesses a person might or might not acquire. How long the insurance company expects a person to live, and how many medical expenses that person might or might not incur in their life. Career paths that are limited because they think a person may later get Alzheimer's or Parkinson's or the slight chance that a person may become an alcoholic, etc.. The possibilities are limitless... |
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Again it is not perfect. Like you mentioned, what about those who dont report rape? the only thing I can see we could do is better education, and raising of our children so that they have enough respect and self confidence that if they are attacked they can feel safe with going to the police and not worry about being victimized more. I never mentioned anythign about profiling eiother, at elast that I am aware of. I hate the idea of profiling, it is a form of stereotyping, and as far as I am concerned it is a form of discrimination. Databasing CAN help though, depending on what it is you database. Once you start keeping records of people by certain criteria, that is the beginning of profiling. Databases allow you to search in a multitude of ways hence profiling. JMO but just wanted that out there. |
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Okay the number 2 one presents issues because forcing someone in the life of a child who does not want to be there is just wrong. I did not say force the would be parent into the childs life. I said collect the child support they should be paying due to the fact that they are a parent. I am sorry if you find that offensive, but the child in question has teh RIGHT to expect you as their parent (any parent not you personally) to step forward and represent their legal interests towards the child support, even if all you do is place it in savings for them when they grow older. My wife ran away when the youngest was 2. doing the math for her 88 dollars a month over 15 years is almost 8,000 dollars per child if saved. Thats before interest and whatnot. Might not seem like much, but it is a good start on a college education if ntohing else. So yes, dna testing so that all indigent parents can be found and made to pay support is a very good reason. And remember just because you have to pay support, does nto garuntee you have contact witht he child. Excuse me. Most guys equate paying money to the right to pop in and out of the childs life when ever they want. No offense but HELL NO. Trust me, it would be best to be poor than the emotional damage that does trust me. most women think the same thing when it is them that pay the support. But guess what hun? Their opinion doesn't matter, it is what you and the courts decide. If you do not want them in the child's life, and have valid reasoning not to let them in, then you go to the court and the court orders no contact, while still paying support. However, if you do not have a valid reason for denying contact, then yes the other parent DOES have the right to pop in if they want to. Nothing you can do about it. SO by all means, that being the way it is, again, you should be willing to do what it takes to secure your child the money that they have a legal right to. And DNA testing is one way to doso. Okay mister. Listen here, how about the sporatic in and out that some men/women do. It is psychologically damaging to young kids and even older ones. Second of all do you have any idea how horrible and difficult it is to get a person declared unfit enough for rights to be yanked. Let me tell you a personally know of cases where "dad" comes in and out of the children's lives every 6-7 months but he is still entitled to every other weekend. "mom" has tried to get visitation yanked because the children cry over it. "stepdad" wants to adopt "dad" won't allow it. Oh and he has beat the kids, and neglected them. There was even a FOUNDED report of child abuse. So I am sorry your idea doesn't fly. First of all calm donw, and stop getting aggressive. I never said none of this happens. I know it happens. Secondly, what does naything you just said have to do with dna databasing, in order to find indigent parents and help make them pay support for their child? Finally\, keep in mind I am one of the close to one percent of men who HAS gotten parental rights removed fromt he mother due to health and safety concerns with the childre. I CAN garuntee you I have been through a harder tiome doing this than any mother you know trying to reove from the father. I also have to ask, in the case where the mother ahs tried to remove, has she done EVERYTHING she could to support the father seeing the kids? Or has she done everythign she could to cause problems with it, like so many women do? I am not syaing either side of it as I dont know. but none of this has anythign to do witht he topic at hand. Sorry memories of my "dead beat dad" piss me off. I am just saying that a lot of people think if they have to pay for the child the child becomes their property they can see when ever, or not see. It can really mess with a child (in therapy because of it) and my friend Jess is willing to drive the daughter to and from the "dad's" sets up time, calls him, all in the interest of what is best for the child. |
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Im not willing to give up my personal privacy and individual rights for anyone or anything!
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