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Topic: heat broken again
dbad111's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:29 PM
i went on a date with a jsh member and we kicked things off great she stayed that night and basically cuddled
i am 18 she is 19 and has a kid im in ohio shes in pa about 50 miles away
this girl is great
but with the distance between us sorta makes it hard for us
i really dont know what to do
any advice or just some 1 to talk to?

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:30 PM

i went on a date with a jsh member and we kicked things off great she stayed that night and basically cuddled
i am 18 she is 19 and has a kid im in ohio shes in pa about 50 miles away
this girl is great
but with the distance between us sorta makes it hard for us
i really dont know what to do
any advice or just some 1 to talk to?

smokin Its not that farsmokin

BatCountry's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:30 PM
50 miles is nothing man, my childs mother is about 40 miles from me, so I travel that every day not including driving to work..

goodcookin's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:31 PM
Hey I'm interested in a guy 50 miles away. It is so hard to find someone you really like that when you do distance is nothing.

no photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:33 PM
50 miles?? Even with gas prices that's pretty close...
I could only wish...

If you hit it off don't let it go, just get creative with travel plans, long weekends, unlimited long distance plans, etc.

Good luck to you! flowerforyou

dbad111's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:35 PM
another thing that is bothering me is that she has a kid who is 1 and i dont want to date her and if somthing happens leaver her im scared ya know im only 18 haha

AngeBrulant's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:35 PM
I say if you think she's worth it then keep working at it ^^ flowerforyou flowerforyou Just go with distance makes the heart grow fonder instead of out of sight out of mind =P

Cinderella75's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:36 PM
50 miles ain't nothing babe..
I used to drive that distance to work and back every day..and besides there are soo many different ways to stay in touch..phone, webcam, e-mails for the days u cannot see each other. You can make this work..I don't even think that this distance qualifies as a Long Distance Relationship..:tongue:

elwoodsully's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:37 PM
FIFTY Miles?? Man, I'm chatting with someone 1,700 miles away, and if it worked out,zzzzzzooooooooooooooooooooooom.. I'm outta here.

Godschosengirl's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:38 PM
If you like her she's worth any distance.

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:39 PM
Just 50 miles??? huh

I thought it'd be like 1000 miles or another country

Good luck to you bro drinker

Queene123's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:40 PM
Edited by Queene123 on Tue 06/10/08 02:47 PM

another thing that is bothering me is that she has a kid who is 1 and i dont want to date her and if somthing happens leaver her im scared ya know im only 18 haha


so what if she has a kid, if you cant accept the child, then i can say alot about you then.grumble

my ex hubby was 18 when i met him and my daughter was already 2yrs old, and i wasent expecting for him to claim her, and he did on his own..

DestinysDream's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:41 PM

another thing that is bothering me is that she has a kid who is 1 and i dont want to date her and if somthing happens leaver her im scared ya know im only 18 haha


Huh? You mean her having a kid bugs you?

dbad111's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:42 PM
its not so much bugs me im just scared
i dont think im ready to be a dad

livelife68's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:42 PM
fifty miles is nothing. Good luck

Queene123's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:44 PM

its not so much bugs me im just scared
i dont think im ready to be a dad



she not asking you to... ITS NOT LIKE YOUR GETTING MARRIED TOMORROW..!!!!!!!!!grumble

no photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:44 PM
well she has a kid if it bothers you than most likely do not pursue a relationship. If you believe that there is the possibility of something greater and you want more from her than my advice go for it. There is never any wrong in trying if that is how you feel.

dbad111's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:45 PM
i might get another tattoo today i need to get my mind off some sh*t

no photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:46 PM
take it slow
get to know each other...

if this girls the one
you will know...

if you're not ready to be a dad
tell her now so she can move on...

Good Luckflowerforyou

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:48 PM
I think her having a kid bothers you

More that the distance

JMO ohwell

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