I just wanted to pop on and say hi to my friends on here real quick this morning. I've been pretty scarce on this site I know. Things have happened to me and unfortunately I don't think this site is really the place for me anymore. I've been basically bombed by 2 women in 3 months time BOTH saying they liked me and end up finding out, they like another guy too and both ended up with the other. Makes me feel like second best. I see how they are and want to stay away. Feelings were hurt and I really don't need it in my life anymore. I'm a REAL guy with REAL feelings and they may think I'm quote "hardcore" but, inside, I'm a real gentle and sweet guy who just wants to be loved. I'm over it and have moved on and have better things to do and worry about so I look at it as a learning experience.....don't do the online dating thing anymore....which I don't think I'm going to do so. It's caused people a lot of heartache and stress and I don't need to go through it. I'll look in on my REAL friends on here from time to time.... I hope all of your dreams come true.....I really do..... I love you guys so much and it's going to be hard to go but, like I said, I'll drop in from time to time. Love you guys......

I agree the women dont think us guys have any feelings...and as far as computer dating it dose suck the ones that you really like are so far away...just give it time someones out there for you somewhere and ewhen the time is right shell find ya,,,you dont look for love ....you fall into it....good luck brother

sorry to hear that Fly and it's good that you are not going to settle for being second best. take it all in stride. you're a great guy and you deserve a girl who thinks you're great too.
all the best! and please keep in touch, we're JSH family we care

TAKE CARE OF YOU

Luv ya Fly

I am just going to say, if you ever do come back to on line dating, learn to bounce. Its (on line) all about holding some back (dont wear your heart on your sleave) till the truly right one is there. How do you know when the right one is there, they will be there for you just as much as you are there for them. Good luck with all you do.

Here's my two cents.. you can take it or leave it. I haven't come across you while I've been online, but I've only recently really started to post anything. Everyone gets burned no matter if you are "hardcore" or someone that shows their emotions. About a week ago, I got the raw end of the deal while chatting with someone from on here, because of some of my beliefs. It's happened before with others, but you know what, it's me and I'm not changing for anyone. If they don't like it tough, they can move on and I'll find someone else that understands and appreciates me for who I am. I just thank God that it didn't come down to us meeting and finding out then that he was different than he seemed on the phone. Never settle for anything less than you deserve!!

Fly do what makes you happy. If staying away from online dating is going to do it, then by all means don't do the online dating. But just remember, you can get burned anywhere you meet a girl.

Fly

I've missed your spark around here.
You know there is nothing wrong with hanging here with your friends...it's working well for me.
You are a real guy who is gentle and sweet and caring and we need your kind here

I'm sorry you have been hurt, that just sucks.
But please don't be a stranger, you're a breath of fresh air


Hugsssss

Safe Journey (((((Fly)))))))