I think I might have pushed a guy too far. I got too personal and he got
too upset. If you like and want to be with someone shouldn't you know
rather or not they are legit? (I mean after all we did meet on the net)
or at least be able to share these experiences together instead of
running away from them.

If someone gets mad cause you want to know about them...Well then you
just found out all you needed to know!!

Yes you should get to know someone. But if you just met them. I would
take it easy.

there isn't anything wrong with being inquisitive but you don't have to
know his lifes story right away and some people are a little more
private so , be gentle with him lol. i'm a private person and i don't
have anything to hide and i don't lie but the type of people i grew up
around, i get suspicious if people that don't know you ask too many
personal questions.

Yeah, I know, we've been talking for quite a while now and uhhh I guess
so. Only the true colors come out later huh?

yeah, if you've been talking for awhile there might be something to
that..just move on if you're looking for something else

Remember everyone is different and relationships of any kind that start
out need to be open and honest. Just be yourself, that is most
important.

Well if ya have been talking for a while now then he should expect you
as you should him to be curious about each other. the only way to get
to know each other more is to talk and ask each questions. Now there are
area's that should be left in the past. Details of past relantionships.
For you know they had them and no longer with them. It's okay to ask
later why they broke up but don't need to go into details over them.
But... now if you ask someone a question and they get on the defense
right off. Humm girl someome seems to be hiding something. You can't
base a new relantionship on lies from the beginning. This is a red flag.
good luck

Well to me, the only way to find out MynDLash is to ask. I met a man off
the net and I don't think there is anything about each other we don't
know.

right, it was the red flag issue of why I brought it up to him. I told
him that I've been in a similar situation that was always a bumpy road
and because of it, it made me think... not again... u know. But, all's
good, he opened up to me and we still see eye to eye! Thanks for the
advice.

I am really glad that you got to know his true colors before doing
something like marriage I married my ex and didn't know his true colors
until it was to late so I am very happy for you that you found out. Stay
away from him.

I can't he's got me wrapped up! Don't get me wrong he is a really nice
guy; but we're still learning from each other and that takes time. It
was me that went too far and trust me it isn't because I'm whipped
either. I was the one in the wrong.