There are men and then there are boys!!! I prefer men....... and thats not just an age....its a mindset!!

That also happened to me I was making him and kids apriority and I was lucky if I was even an option

I would rather talk with SOME women than date them.

That is exactly how I feel

YES!!!!

I think Im in love!!

That is so my situations recently!!!! I really appreciate this thread.

There are reasons why men dont teach us how to shoot!!!

you probably scared them away with your yearning for marriage, the six kids, the two-story house, and the escalade. fellas don't tend to react well to that kind of stuff on the first email.

...cause the guys a p**sy...or if he doesn't have a face shot like me..he's ugly, and doesn't want to get rejected by you...

Roco

Ya know...

Why am I getting irritated because I don't HAVE this problem???

I don't get any emails from women that are " into me " and then they disappear.

What the... gives??? lol

whose say we cant learn ????

We can. I'll teach ya.

It's a lot easier to meet people on line, and it's also a lot easier to blow someone off on line.

And yeah: It happens to men just as much or more than it does women.

Some guys just want to talk. They will act like they want to meet just to keep you talking to them, but if anything like a real meeting starts to seem likely, they will freak out and disappear.

Some guys just want to meet someone for sex but they know from experience if they say that right out, most women won't talk to them. If they talk to you for awhile and feed you full of compliments, but it seems like that's as far as it's going to go, they get frustrated and go look somewhere else. I mean, a lot of guys are too conceited (or broke) to just find a hooker for sex--it has to be a "nice" girl, right?

And the list goes on!

I have met several really good friends on line. I met my current boyfriend on line. However, none of the people I'm good friends with that I met on line were people I met on a dating site; it was always some other setting for people with mutual interests.

My boyfriend and I were both members of an internet discussion board that had to do with the occult. I liked the stuff that he posted and said so. He messaged me and we started talking. After several IM conversations it became obvious that we had a lot in common. He asked if he could call. We started talking on the phone several times a week. Then we started talking on the phone every day. We met in person and enjoyed each other's company enormously. Now we have been friends almost a year and a half--and it started out with mutual interests, not because we were looking for something in particular.

When I join a social site on the internet, I do not do so with the expectation that I'm going to find the love of my life; it's so I can be entertained. Discussion forums with lots of members are good cheap entertainment. Every so often I will meet a person who is interesting and wants to be friends, and that's like a plus, right? Since I wasn't expecting it, it's that much more fun when I realize that I have found a friend.

It's generally pretty easy for me to tell within a very short time if a guy just wants to kill time by talking to me, or if he's just looking for a casual shag. I will talk to guys like that, but I don't let them take up a lot of my time; I know just from what they're saying ("you're beautiful" "I think I'm falling in love with you" "I'm a good man looking for a good woman" etc) that it's not going to turn into anything.

I hope this was helpful. Don't get discouraged. If you are looking for your one true love, you have to realize it's going to take awhile. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

Cool I'll be right over