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Topic: I'm just not that into you!
kaipaig Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 13	Thu 06/05/08 05:47 PM
Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"?

jisytg14 Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 280	Thu 06/05/08 05:49 PM
i think thats a fine response as long as it's not followed by.. I think we should be friends ... i hate that... but as long as it isn't something really cruel i don't think it hurts to be honest and tell the person why

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 06/05/08 05:49 PM
Nope. All depends how you say it though...

kriesybear Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 508	Thu 06/05/08 05:49 PM
i think thats fine to tell them. If they ask why them tell them.They asked

chloelain Joined Tue 06/03/08 Posts: 12	Thu 06/05/08 05:49 PM
for the sake of their feelings (and avoiding that one last fight), no, it's not wrong.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 06/05/08 05:49 PM
I thought our date went well

Silntstrnger Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 4265	Thu 06/05/08 05:50 PM
did u not feel this connection before or after u slept with her?lol

CATBW56 Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 7224	Thu 06/05/08 05:50 PM
JMO, but I think it is wrong not to give a reason....but if said in respectful way that you don't feel there is a connection then that is good explaination. Either way the other person is going feel hurt

kaipaig Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 13	Thu 06/05/08 05:51 PM
I actually laughed outloud at that one! Very nice!

kaipaig Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 13	Thu 06/05/08 05:51 PM
Oh youre funny!

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Thu 06/05/08 05:52 PM
Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"? i think it's better than ignoring, so yes, speak the truth.

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Thu 06/05/08 05:52 PM
What did I do wrong? I thought our date was marvelous..Im sorry I disappointed you

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 06/05/08 05:52 PM
nope not wrong at all... bout time someone has the balls to say it

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Thu 06/05/08 05:52 PM
Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"? Whatever you do.... don't do it over the phone in a drive threw ordering food

kaipaig Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 13	Thu 06/05/08 05:52 PM
did u not feel this connection before or after u slept with her?lol Very funny!

kaipaig Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 13	Thu 06/05/08 05:53 PM
What did I do wrong? I thought our date was marvelous..Im sorry I disappointed you What have I gotten myself into with this blogging thing!!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 06/05/08 05:54 PM
What did I do wrong? I thought our date was marvelous..Im sorry I disappointed you What have I gotten myself into with this blogging thing!! u have no idea

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 06/05/08 05:55 PM
Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"? I'd be disappointed cuz you're hot

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Thu 06/05/08 05:55 PM
What did I do wrong? I thought our date was marvelous..Im sorry I disappointed you What have I gotten myself into with this blogging thing!! u have no idea In all seriousness...i'm sorry your date didn't go well..and I think if you say it nicely that's a good explenation!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 06/05/08 05:56 PM
seriously... if you have only gone out once or twice you are not required to give an explaination. At least you are man enough tho to tell her you just don't think the connection is there... rather than leading her on and not calling back just to "spare her feelings"