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Topic: I tried something...
Supreme_Pizza Joined Mon 04/16/07 Posts: 31	Wed 06/04/08 02:18 AM
I just sent a fairly long and well-thought out message to a girl that I like. Everyone cross their fingers and hope she mails me back! Cheers! First... How do you know you like her? You may like her profile but that's no reason to get too involved with giving her personal info that she probably doesn't care about. Try to keep it simple and don't expect a reply. Just say, "HI. Check me out. yadda yadda Drop me a line sometime." Think of it as a casual meeting on the street where you exchange numbers. Would you gush on some girl you just met. That would be a little freaky from her side. Good luck though.

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Wed 06/04/08 02:22 PM Edited by Blaze1978 on Wed 06/04/08 02:23 PM
I've tried that often...short and to-the-point has never worked. So I figured I would write something detailed and thought-out in order to stand out. How many short and to-the-point mails does the average women get on a website? A lot, I would wager.

Christinacospgs Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 6376	Wed 06/04/08 02:24 PM
I think she will really like it that you took the time to think about what you wrote. That shows some real thought and effort on your part! I give that an A+

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Wed 06/04/08 02:25 PM Edited by Blaze1978 on Wed 06/04/08 02:35 PM
However, I haven't gotten a reply yet. Looks like I can't ever win. I don't even care if she gives me a negative reply. I just want a little acknowledgement.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Wed 06/04/08 02:42 PM
Dude sometimes it a month before I get a reply. A couple of short ones first, then the big one. If she doesn't reply in a couple days to the short ones, she ain't interested, she's busy with other things.

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Wed 06/04/08 02:49 PM Edited by Blaze1978 on Wed 06/04/08 02:49 PM
Oh gawd! I can't sit and wait idly by for a month. In a month, I'll be on to other things. This online dating thing is too complicated.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Wed 06/04/08 03:01 PM
Big mistake.....Always start out lite and move on from there Good chance you're going to scare her away...... But, good luck all the same.... ya that's what I was gonna say .. but what's done is done so let's hope for the best eh?

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Wed 06/04/08 03:35 PM Edited by Blaze1978 on Wed 06/04/08 03:36 PM
Meh. Mutual match, get no reply. Send a breif message, get no reply. Send a well-thought out message, get no reply. It's all the same thing. What do you women want? Is it about you slowly driving me insane? Every action initiates the same response. It's like I'm on this secret universal blacklist. Time to seek out the arms of my only true mistress, video games!

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Wed 06/04/08 03:57 PM
Or maybe I'm just too impatient and should stop talking now.

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