Topic: How do...
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:23 PM

noway tell her you have herpes
laugh That'll worklaugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:24 PM
just say you don't think the two of you are a fit for the future.. Of course I said that once and boy did it backfire but my friend says it and never has isssues...

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:24 PM
first of all...dont beleive everything you hear. Many have reasons to belittle and degrade others. whats your gutt tell ya???

unique1111's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:24 PM
Stragiht up and honest---if you drag it out someone may get hurt.

robert1652's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:25 PM


noway tell her you have herpes
laugh That'll worklaugh
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looking4u52's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:27 PM
Just tell her you had a good time, but you have realized that you
are not ready for a relationship and it would be in her best interest to not get involved with you.

LIJOMA's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:27 PM

honestly man....herpes or maybe dont shower....forget to wipe your ass??? ohwell




That always lets me know a man does not see a future with melaugh

bgeorge's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:27 PM

...I tell a woman that I went out with over the weekend, that I don't think it's a good idea for us to pursue this relationship any further? I've found out from third parties to watch my back.
Any ideas I'll fully appreciate. Thanks.

if you already told her...you did it!!!!!! you're done...now have some fun looking for a new lady interestflowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

Toddo73's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:28 PM
I'm fine with never talking to her again. She's called twice knowing that I was at work without leaving a message. I called her back and said I've been busy. That was yesterday. She has'nt called today. I'm just trying to figure what to do next time I have to deal with her.

MalenaC's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:32 PM
you may change your phone nr.

Max_Darkling's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:33 PM
I don't think it's a good idea for us to pursue this relationship any further Is the way I would say it to her and tell her why you fell that way

bgeorge's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:35 PM

I'm fine with never talking to her again. She's called twice knowing that I was at work without leaving a message. I called her back and said I've been busy. That was yesterday. She has'nt called today. I'm just trying to figure what to do next time I have to deal with her.

yikes and she sounds desperate and needy...not a good combo

no photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:38 PM
What do the third parties have to gain by you staying away? Any ulterior motives? Also, do they have proof.

You might want to discuss it with her, judge for yourself, first. Trust your gut.

Toddo73's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:48 PM
My gut tells me to walk away. I'm afraid that she won't walk away.

Toddo73's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:49 PM
I'm thinking of telling her that I was confused. I'm really gay.laugh

itsmetina's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:58 PM
i'm wondering if you had sex and now not so interested anymore.any truth to that?

Toddo73's photo
Thu 05/29/08 09:04 PM
We did'nt have sex. We slept in the same bed. She said no sex. I was cool with that. I figured when I left, that was it. She called me. I'm trying to be the point, yet kind.

no photo
Thu 05/29/08 09:07 PM

I'm fine with never talking to her again. She's called twice knowing that I was at work without leaving a message. I called her back and said I've been busy. That was yesterday. She has'nt called today. I'm just trying to figure what to do next time I have to deal with her.

Don't call back unless she leaves a message. Once you have ended it and made it clear you wish no more contact, don't call back even if she leaves a message.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/29/08 09:09 PM

...I tell a woman that I went out with over the weekend, that I don't think it's a good idea for us to pursue this relationship any further? I've found out from third parties to watch my back.
Any ideas I'll fully appreciate. Thanks.


So you're going to listen to what OTHER people say and not make your own decision???

Carry on with what you are doing....

Toddo73's photo
Thu 05/29/08 09:11 PM
I'm just trying to figure out how not to hurt this womans feelings.