Topic: Why are some JSH people so cruel?
lilith401's photo
Tue 05/27/08 06:29 AM

we are not rude, we are socially challenged


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I thought THAT was called Asperger's Syndrome?

Mornin' Rob! flowerforyou

EtherealEmbers's photo
Tue 05/27/08 06:34 AM
I still wanna know why the supposed nice people keep bullying the supposed mean people on JSH...

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 05/27/08 06:36 AM
Hummm good question there Ethereal

I just keep away from the assholes and idiots from here

Not easy sometimes though ohwell

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Tue 05/27/08 06:38 AM
mean, nice, sweet, ass holes..

we all are one of these from time to time, no?


except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet onelaugh laugh

lilith401's photo
Tue 05/27/08 06:39 AM

except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet onelaugh laugh


You eat lots of fruit? Candy? laugh

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Tue 05/27/08 06:40 AM
I am the NICEST perv u will ever wanna meet!!!noway laugh drinker

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Tue 05/27/08 06:40 AM

mean, nice, sweet, ass holes..

we all are one of these from time to time, no?


except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet onelaugh laugh


I agree ... some abuse it though laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 05/27/08 06:41 AM
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except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet onelaugh laugh


You eat lots of fruit? Candy? laugh

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Tue 05/27/08 06:44 AM
They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions.

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Tue 05/27/08 07:16 AM

They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions.


See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me.
This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever.
At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here?
I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly.
In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am.
Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family.
I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing.
So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me.
The world of cyber is a mask of many faces.


Kat

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Tue 05/27/08 07:22 AM
Edited by justme32 on Tue 05/27/08 07:25 AM


They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions.


See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me.
This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever.
At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here?
I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly.
In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am.
Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family.
I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing.
So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me.
The world of cyber is a mask of many faces.


Kat

flowerforyou I am myself also. How I respond to others on here is how I respond to others off the computer. I don't want to be something I'm not. I totally agree with you.

Marley's photo
Tue 05/27/08 07:34 AM

Some are down right ignorant and others are so sweet....


I am ignorant,but also sweet and kind.flowerforyou

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Tue 05/27/08 08:16 AM
Edited by angelindarkness on Tue 05/27/08 08:53 AM

flowerforyou Some people have jealousy issues but I still luv themflowerforyou


Mirror's right. Some people have jealousy issues and think that by putting another person down or making them look bad, it somehow elevates their status or makes them smell like roses. Well, it couldn't be further from the truth, to the rational and more emotionally mature people observing. Of course most of these folks won't say anything because they don't want to give them the attention they crave and do not want to keep the drama going.

Funny how some of the folks who call themselves the most honest (read: bitter, jealous, mean-spirited, abusive, childish) will get all huffy when someone deigns to give them a dose of their own medicine. They are so verbal to say how people ask for honesty and openness and cry when they get it, or "can't take it". Those comments in the forums are clues to what the true nature of the person is really like. Speaking truth ISN'T enough. KNOWING how to do it and to be a mature, self-aware human being IS.

Funny how the very same people who put down others for not being able to take "their" truth get all hissy and vindictive when someone gives them a taste of their own.

Irony. *shakes head*

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Tue 05/27/08 08:18 AM


They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions.


See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me.
This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever.
At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here?
I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly.
In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am.
Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family.
I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing.
So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me.
The world of cyber is a mask of many faces.


Kat



Beautifully put, Kat. flowerforyou

Sad to say, this happens on most boards.

scttrbrain's photo
Tue 05/27/08 08:20 AM
Edited by scttrbrain on Tue 05/27/08 08:21 AM


flowerforyou Some people have jealousy issues but I still luv themflowerforyou


Mirror's right. Some people have jealousy issues and think that by putting another person down or making them look bad, it somehow elevates their status or makes them smell like roses. Well, it couldn't be further from the truth, to the rational and more emotionally mature people observing. Of course most of these folks won't say anything because they don't want to give them the attention they crave and do not was to keep the drama going.

Funny how some of the folks who call themselves the most honest (read: bitter, jealous, mean-spirited, abusive, childish) will get all huffy when someone deigns to give them a dose of their own medicine. They are so verbal to say how people ask for honesty and openness and cry when they get it, or "can't take it". Those comments in the forums are clues to what the true nature of the person is really like. Speaking truth ISN'T enough. KNOWING how to do it and to be a mature, self-aware human being IS.

Funny how the very same people who put down others for not being able to take "their" truth get all hissy and vindictive when someone gives them a taste of their own.

Irony. *shakes head*


Very good. I appreciated that wording.

Kat
Edited because I just saw your other post.

Thank you.

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Tue 05/27/08 08:55 AM
You're welcome! flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:07 AM
Most of the time I try to think about about what I am going to say before I type it. It is on here, permanently, for all to see.

scttrbrain's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:11 AM

Most of the time I try to think about about what I am going to say before I type it. It is on here, permanently, for all to see.

Yup, it's actually everywhere for "ALL" to read. Our words can be found in places we haven't thought of.

I found myself, a place I never went. Me...my words. I was appalled that it could happen without permission. Oh well, so goes cyber net.
Kat

Dragoness's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:11 AM


They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions.


See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me.
This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever.
At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here?
I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly.
In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am.
Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family.
I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing.
So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me.
The world of cyber is a mask of many faces.


Kat



Katflowerforyou That may be true for people who feel powerful by the screen cover. There is those like me who are the opposite. I am nicer on here than in real life because I don't know anyone on here personally so I put on my better face on here.

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Tue 05/27/08 09:16 AM
depending on the time of the month and the amount of alcohol I have in me..you can catch me in a good mood or bad.....
smokin