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we are not rude, we are socially challenged I thought THAT was called Asperger's Syndrome? Mornin' Rob! |
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I still wanna know why the supposed nice people keep bullying the supposed mean people on JSH...
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Hummm good question there Ethereal
I just keep away from the assholes and idiots from here Not easy sometimes though |
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mean, nice, sweet, ass holes..
we all are one of these from time to time, no? except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet one |
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except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet one You eat lots of fruit? Candy? |
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I am the NICEST perv u will ever wanna meet!!!
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mean, nice, sweet, ass holes.. we all are one of these from time to time, no? except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet one I agree ... some abuse it though |
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Acai Berry woot woot
except for me i am always an a-hole.....but a sweet one You eat lots of fruit? Candy? |
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They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions.
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They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions. See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me. This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever. At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here? I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly. In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am. Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family. I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing. So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me. The world of cyber is a mask of many faces. Kat |
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Edited by
justme32
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Tue 05/27/08 07:25 AM
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They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions. See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me. This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever. At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here? I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly. In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am. Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family. I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing. So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me. The world of cyber is a mask of many faces. Kat |
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Some are down right ignorant and others are so sweet.... I am ignorant,but also sweet and kind. |
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Edited by
angelindarkness
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Tue 05/27/08 08:53 AM
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Some people have jealousy issues but I still luv them Mirror's right. Some people have jealousy issues and think that by putting another person down or making them look bad, it somehow elevates their status or makes them smell like roses. Well, it couldn't be further from the truth, to the rational and more emotionally mature people observing. Of course most of these folks won't say anything because they don't want to give them the attention they crave and do not want to keep the drama going. Funny how some of the folks who call themselves the most honest (read: bitter, jealous, mean-spirited, abusive, childish) will get all huffy when someone deigns to give them a dose of their own medicine. They are so verbal to say how people ask for honesty and openness and cry when they get it, or "can't take it". Those comments in the forums are clues to what the true nature of the person is really like. Speaking truth ISN'T enough. KNOWING how to do it and to be a mature, self-aware human being IS. Funny how the very same people who put down others for not being able to take "their" truth get all hissy and vindictive when someone gives them a taste of their own. Irony. *shakes head* |
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They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions. See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me. This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever. At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here? I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly. In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am. Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family. I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing. So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me. The world of cyber is a mask of many faces. Kat Beautifully put, Kat. Sad to say, this happens on most boards. |
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Edited by
scttrbrain
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Tue 05/27/08 08:21 AM
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Some people have jealousy issues but I still luv them Mirror's right. Some people have jealousy issues and think that by putting another person down or making them look bad, it somehow elevates their status or makes them smell like roses. Well, it couldn't be further from the truth, to the rational and more emotionally mature people observing. Of course most of these folks won't say anything because they don't want to give them the attention they crave and do not was to keep the drama going. Funny how some of the folks who call themselves the most honest (read: bitter, jealous, mean-spirited, abusive, childish) will get all huffy when someone deigns to give them a dose of their own medicine. They are so verbal to say how people ask for honesty and openness and cry when they get it, or "can't take it". Those comments in the forums are clues to what the true nature of the person is really like. Speaking truth ISN'T enough. KNOWING how to do it and to be a mature, self-aware human being IS. Funny how the very same people who put down others for not being able to take "their" truth get all hissy and vindictive when someone gives them a taste of their own. Irony. *shakes head* Very good. I appreciated that wording. Kat Edited because I just saw your other post. Thank you. |
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You're welcome!
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Most of the time I try to think about about what I am going to say before I type it. It is on here, permanently, for all to see.
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Most of the time I try to think about about what I am going to say before I type it. It is on here, permanently, for all to see. Yup, it's actually everywhere for "ALL" to read. Our words can be found in places we haven't thought of. I found myself, a place I never went. Me...my words. I was appalled that it could happen without permission. Oh well, so goes cyber net. Kat |
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They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions. See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me. This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever. At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here? I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly. In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am. Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family. I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing. So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me. The world of cyber is a mask of many faces. Kat Kat That may be true for people who feel powerful by the screen cover. There is those like me who are the opposite. I am nicer on here than in real life because I don't know anyone on here personally so I put on my better face on here. |
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depending on the time of the month and the amount of alcohol I have in me..you can catch me in a good mood or bad.....
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