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Topic: I wanna meet him
msskarly Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 357	Sat 05/24/08 07:12 PM
So, you want us to help you come up with a lie to tell your parents? Yeah thats bad I know!

Smilie1 Joined Wed 02/27/08 Posts: 8	Sat 05/24/08 07:14 PM
Ask him to make a trip up here.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 05/24/08 07:14 PM
You're setting yourself up for heartache in more ways than one. Let the guy make an effort to see you, and if your parents have paid for your college, respect their wishes enough to at least not fly to another state for some random guy. Whatever you do, make sure you cover your bases so people know where you are in case you don't come back.

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sat 05/24/08 07:14 PM
Whatever you do, JUST BE CAREFUL!!! The chances are quite good that the fella you wanna meet is some deranged psycho or something. Your picture could very well end up on a milk carton or something from one supposedly "innocent" meeting. And there are a LOT of freaks out there looking to make mincemeat out of teenage girls nowadays. Of course, THEN there are the not-quite-so-serious-but-still-serious things related to your long-distance meet, like the whole pregnancy thing. And THAT'S something you gotta be prepared for, period.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Sat 05/24/08 07:15 PM
So, you want us to help you come up with a lie to tell your parents? Yeah thats bad I know! starting something off with lies and doing things you know are 'bad', isn't the way to go. family is way more important than that.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 05/24/08 07:16 PM
Now that I've seen who it is, I mean he's cute and all, but that guy flirts with everyone!! Really... LET HIM COME TO YOU!!

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Sat 05/24/08 07:21 PM
So, you want us to help you come up with a lie to tell your parents? Yeah thats bad I know! Bad? It's disrespectful to your parents.

Peoplespeaker Joined Wed 08/08/07 Posts: 108	Sat 05/24/08 07:21 PM
BUT BUT BUT What able ME?!! haha

msskarly Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 357	Sat 05/24/08 07:35 PM
Now that I've seen who it is, I mean he's cute and all, but that guy flirts with everyone!! Really... LET HIM COME TO YOU!! How do u know who it is?

msdestinbooty Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1915	Sat 05/24/08 08:45 PM
Now that I've seen who it is, I mean he's cute and all, but that guy flirts with everyone!! Really... LET HIM COME TO YOU!! How do u know who it is? bet she saw it on your profile.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 05/24/08 10:40 PM
Are you serious? Do you think it's difficult to tell who it is?

msdestinbooty Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1915	Sat 05/24/08 10:42 PM
yes he is a flirt but hes still a great guy. And karly like I told you in that email he talks about you ALL THE TIME!!!

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 05/24/08 10:52 PM
A week or so ago there was also a huge thread dedicated solely to how someone else was the most beautiful woman on JSH, too. BIG FLIRT.

msdestinbooty Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1915	Sat 05/24/08 10:54 PM
A week or so ago there was also a huge thread dedicated solely to how someone else was the most beautiful woman on JSH, too. BIG FLIRT. who was he talking about?

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 05/24/08 10:58 PM
someone else, I can't remember her name besides, it doesn't matter, it wasn't this girl...

msskarly Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 357	Sun 05/25/08 07:53 AM
I told him he could try to find someone else a while ago bc long distance is hard for me! But i know he cares about me! We talk almost 24/7! So yeah Im not worried!

Topsykretts Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 4807	Sun 05/25/08 07:54 AM
Now that I've seen who it is, I mean he's cute and all, but that guy flirts with everyone!! Really... LET HIM COME TO YOU!! The wisest thing ever

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Sun 05/25/08 07:57 AM
The truth will set you free

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Sun 05/25/08 08:00 AM
have him come to you....meet the parents... shows them respect and you'll have less trouble for any future travel.... good luck

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Sun 05/25/08 08:04 AM
you are 19. You are in college. Trust, you will find plenty of men in college to deal with. It is not advisable for you to go traipsing around the country for some guy you met online. If he really likes you as you are assuming he does, tell him to either come to you or wait till you finish college. You are not quite there and jaded yet on the world of dating. I would take the advice of pretty much everyone here. DON'T GO. But if you do, you need to set up a network of friends (Since you are determined to go behind your parents' back and if my daughter ever did that I would knock the sh*t out of her) and tell them where you will be, when you will get there and make sure they (and you) have the number for the local authorities. This world is getting more and more unsafe, and you are still young. This may be your true love, or this may be something you may regret soon in life. Just be careful. The people here on JSH and O+U really can't stress that enough. If the adults from here take extra precautions, so should you.