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you are your very own worst enemy right now.
you have 2 choices #1 - trust him - stop all this foolishness if he's done nothing to warrant your behavior do something about it #2 - dont trust him - spy on him, follow him, track him if he's done something to make you feel this way trust your gut, make a decision. |
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in reply to the one who said he would never date someone checking a cell phone if he found out. only because i was with someone for7 years at 3 hour distance i never cheated but i seen to many changes over a bout a month they sure be honest and sat ther are done instead of cheating he still does not know today how i caught him. we would not have to be like this if some men and women would be honest i believe in honesty until shone other wise . what he done was wrong also dont give reason we do not have to be like that not something i am proud of.you do not kiss and tell how when you fine out That is flat out invasion of privacy and gives no one a right to invade it.. If your not comfortable in the relationship, simply call them out on it. If it still doesnt correct itself then move on! No one has the right to check my phone, check my email, follow me, check in with people I work with, so on....If you dont trust me then move on.... 
right on jim...how would you ladies feel if you found out your b/f was doing that to you? |
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ok I have a huge trust prob.. I cant seem to trust mike(b/f) when he says hes at work he dont text as much which I understand cuz he at work but I cant help to think he is cheating on me... is there any way to get over this? 
I've learned that any relationship/marriage can go south for any reason, real or imagined. The insecurity, if imagined might be from leaning on him too much emotionally and then adding anxiety (As I define as an unhealthy fear of something that just hasn't happened) alone can ruin a relationship if we're not careful to check ourselves. Making new friends might help, or alternatively just doing something nice for someone for no particular reason might also make you feel better. If nothing else, you'll put a smile on someone else's face, and will find that when you're working to put a smile on one person's face, you wont be obsessing about your bf. In time, you'll begin to feel more secure about the relationship and this feeling will pass, normally. |
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You need to get some self esteem......what guy wants you to text message him constantly??? I would find that irritating.....you want him to want you not scare him away!!
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You need to get some self esteem......what guy wants you to text message him constantly??? I would find that irritating.....you want him to want you not scare him away!!
Good way to put it...... 
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ok I have a huge trust prob.. I cant seem to trust mike(b/f) when he says hes at work he dont text as much which I understand cuz he at work but I cant help to think he is cheating on me... is there any way to get over this?
A lot of times your mind can run away with you. Ask yourself if it is a reasonible fear? Then if it is, ask yourself WHY? Then, as yourself if you really want or need someone that wants or needs someone else... |
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Grow up. If it is real,you have no worries. If he is cheating,it was never meant to be. Isn't that the truth. You got to be happy with you before you can make anyone else happy. Until you fix you, stop making other people suffer for your problems. Look within, get professional help if you need it, and let poor Mike off the hook. |
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