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We decided God has a plan we don't understand. Didn't like it, but made the best of what we had. Betty, you should come down for July. Thank you Sage ..Iwill see what I can do. |
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Betty, how far is Kitchener from Toronto/Mississauga? I would say Kitchener is about an hour maybe 2 depending in traffic . Mississauga is a bit closer . |
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WOW.
I had an almost 3 yr relationship with a widower that I met online that lives in Mississauga. I was up there ALL the time. Just about every month-6 weeks I would come up. Loved it there! |
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Ohhh that traffic! The QE Is awful so is the 401!
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Mornin everyone,
Ripped off, I just felt and still do sometimes, in a fluff..a bit numb. Sometimes things surface.I cry, I decided not to feel angry or bitter. I had plenty of that during at times. The year and a half afforded some healing before he passed. I had always wanted to feel beautiful from him..just before he passed, he told me, It was nice and really didn't matter as much then. In my writing, I share that in many ways.. Today, holiday that I am feeling weary of alone. People around me are doing, enjoying and my means for similar is limited. Sometimes it is those feelings that hurt. I lost much of what I had when he passed. I have struggled in all aspects of living to live as well as I can. I have encountered some very mean men. I am kind, tender and caring...a little ouchy today.. Let the tears begin.. |
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Special invite to all the widow's & widower's, come to the July Gathering, my house, second weekend of july. Stay longer if you want. Mail me. pretty far from Seattle huh? |
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Right across from Omaha Nebr.
Plane ride in Eppley Airport Omaha. Read the beginning of the thread. Or mail me. |
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Ohhh that traffic! The QE Is awful so is the 401! [ /quote] I know!! I avoid it like the plague Where do you live now?.I tried to email you but I am not a good looking man ..so I can,t |
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Mornin everyone, Ripped off, I just felt and still do sometimes, in a fluff..a bit numb. Sometimes things surface.I cry, I decided not to feel angry or bitter. I had plenty of that during at times. The year and a half afforded some healing before he passed. I had always wanted to feel beautiful from him..just before he passed, he told me, It was nice and really didn't matter as much then. In my writing, I share that in many ways.. Today, holiday that I am feeling weary of alone. People around me are doing, enjoying and my means for similar is limited. Sometimes it is those feelings that hurt. I lost much of what I had when he passed. I have struggled in all aspects of living to live as well as I can. I have encountered some very mean men. I am kind, tender and caring...a little ouchy today.. Let the tears begin.. |
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I hear yor pain ..so sorry for your loss. Don,t feel alone , we all have a special bond here . I know is is not the same but I think we all understand and are here for you . Sometimes talking to strangers are easier than talking to family . Here we would never tell you to knock it off and get on with it . the way well meaning friends and family do.
Your writing is beautiful and has brought comfort to me as sometimes you expressed what I was feeling. Good luck to you hun and here is a big hug from me to you |
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Special invite to all the widow's & widower's, come to the July Gathering, my house, second weekend of july. Stay longer if you want. Mail me. pretty far from Seattle huh? |
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Sage,
Did you also post about the Gathering on the other boards? I thought that might be a good idea for non widowed persons to see it as well. |
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Yes, am bumping the original up in General, made a post in 50's & here. Figure that should pretty well cover w.o getting in trouble for posting samething in to many different threads.
#'s are low so hope more get on board. |
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Going to the gathering would be nice, but I know I can't make it. My finances are rather limited and a trip just doesn't fit into that budget. But, I hope more people will be able to go and have a great time.
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Hey Knightless! Good to see you.
Yeah I won't be able to either. Don't find myself near Iowa too often. |
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knightless, ck with greer & buckethead.
They might be driving up, ride with them, cheap. |
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I hear yor pain ..so sorry for your loss. Don,t feel alone , we all have a special bond here . I know is is not the same but I think we all understand and are here for you . Sometimes talking to strangers are easier than talking to family . Here we would never tell you to knock it off and get on with it . the way well meaning friends and family do. Your writing is beautiful and has brought comfort to me as sometimes you expressed what I was feeling. Good luck to you hun and here is a big hug from me to you Hi Betty, I feel your warmth and comfort of familiar..still breathing.. |
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I hate holidays, it always reminds me of the family life I thought I would have with my husband and son. I try to create holiday rituals that i think we would have shared, but the day usual ends in tears and it lost my husband 6 years ago.
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endrra, welcome to the group.
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Hi Enderra, Welcome to the WW thread
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