Okay so check this out, this is more giving advice but people are welcome to comment on this.

One thing that iv'e noticed in life, is there are sign anywhere and everywhere. I will use myself as an example real quick.
I am the type of guy who isn't all about sex, i'm a strong christian. I'm saving myself untill marriage, I have a passion for helping others whenever I feel that there is a chance to do so.
I'm looking for a woman who is about the same if not exactly. So basically this is going back to signs.
If i want to get what i'm looking for, i'm going to find people who are close to god. I'm going to look at women who are constantly going to church, where more closured clothing(usually the women that show less cleavage are also less sexually oriented.), and who more often than not,try to go out of their way for other people whn they are in need.

If you look for signs, it's never garrunteed that the relationship will work out, but I can tell you the chances will increase dramatically, so don't just look for looks and try to change people. It's just not going to happen.

Also If anyone want's more advice on whatever, they can feel free to message me.

Tyler Smucker

good luck to ya!

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I wouldn't agree that women that show more are more sexually oriented. It's more an indication really of just how secure they are with themselves. There are many women I know that are not at all sexually active but aren't afraid to show some skin.

Hello Blue Box Smucker. I think you think you have women figured out. You most certainly do not. One charactaristic in a woman does not mean another must exist.

You have much to learn, my blue boxy friend.

It is very important to find someone who shares the same goals and desires as you. NOT all of the same desires, but enough to be truly comfortable.

Got to love the blue box.... d@mn reminds me of Mac and Cheese.. now I'm hungry.

I know...way off topic but oh well.. it never hurts to be random

those advice giving blue boxes scare me

<-------Guess i'm counted out cause of the clevage part

I'm not saying that that's always the case, but I however am speaking from things that have happened to myself and other people that I know.

I know I have much to learn, but i think more you are missing the point of what i'm saying. All i'm trying to say is that if you don't look for signs, you are a lot less likely to get what you want.

A sign can smack me in the head and I will still fail to see it.

hmmmm reminds me of a song..........



And the sign says "Long-haired freaky people need not apply"
So I put my hair up under my hat and I went in to ask him why
He said you look like a fine outstanding young man, I think you'll do
So I took off my hat, I said "Imagine that, huh, me working for you"

[Chorus:]
Signs, signs, everywhere there's signs
F*ckin' up the scenery, breakin' my mind
Do this, don't do that, can't you read the sign

And the sign says "Anybody caught trespassing will be shot on sight"
So I jumped the fence and I yelled at the house
Hey! What gives you the right!
To put up a fence and keep me out, or to keep Mother Nature in
If God was here, he'd tell it to your face, man, you're some kind of sinner

[Chorus]

Oh, say now mister, can't you read
You got to have a shirt and tie to get a seat
You can't watch, no you can't eat, you ain't supposed to be here

And the sign says "You got to have a membership card to get inside" - uh!

[Solo]

And the sign says "Everybody welcome, come in, kneel down and pray"
But then they passed around a plate at the end of it all
And I didn't have a penny to pay
So I got me a pen and a paper and I made up my own f*ckin' sign
I said, "Thank you Lord for thinking 'bout me, I'm alive and doing fine", oh

agree!!
do not judge a book by its cover

I think i need to be reborn again!!!!!!!

just kidding!!!!!!!!!!

While I do agree you can see signs everywhere, I believe you can only see them if you want to see them. That is when awareness comes into play.

However, I do not agree with your opinion that "...usually the women that show less cleavage are also less sexually oriented." Those women may just be modest and believe in saving the "skin" for when they are in the company of only a certain person. Kind of like saving oneself for marriage. You know, "for your eyes only."

I'm one of those women. I can wear a skimpy top or dress in the comfort of my home, but out in public I am more discerning. If I am more comfortable with a man and we are both into each other, then I will show a bit more skin. When it's appropriate to peal it all off then look out cuz he's in trouble!

I go by the "when it's appropriate" in all areas of life. That is just me. Others prefer more attention and love to show all of it. That's cool too. Gives everyone a show. Variety is the spice of life!

"Don't judge a book by its cover." I agree!

My advice: Take time to read the pages and learn the signs.

Good luck to everyone!