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Edited by
Queene123
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Tue 05/20/08 04:02 PM
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there is this guy that i met last yr on another dating site. and he seem nice and all but the problem was that he reminded me of my ex bf that died.. he had the built, down to him wearing a baseball cap and chewing gum... just like the ex.. but i didnt really give him the chance to get to know him...
well he email me from another site and now i dont know if i should give him a chance. should i. the ex that died was verbale abusive... as this guy i dont know as i didnt give him the chance to get to know or be around me long enough |
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That is totally your call.
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I found out not to base someone on a past GF only then it will never work out
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Like the blind leading the blind,
Your playing the field, |
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I'd be worried too.. I hear baseball cats are dangerous
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Trust your gut on this one, but if you do give him a chance leave the baggage in the closet. Not fair to him to put someone elses issues on him just because of a physical resemblance to someone in your past. Best of luck whatever you do.
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Hmmmm.... if a spiritual advisor doesn't know the answer, then, I can't possibly help!! You ought to try. You will evenutally see this man as his individual self and notice him transmute from your conception of your deceased fellow into the man who is truly in front of you.
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I'd be worried too.. I hear baseball cats are dangerous
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I would say to give him the chance... get to know him... it may be hard getting your ex out of your head but you can't hold that against this new guy... your smart enough to know this one is not your ex... give him the benefit of a doubt before you cast him aside....
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I don't think should or shouldn't is the question .It depends on if you want to or not .Just because someone wants to know you doesn't mean you have any obligation at all.you have to do what is best for you
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Hmmmm.... if a spiritual advisor doesn't know the answer, then, I can't possibly help!! You ought to try. You will evenutally see this man as his individual self and notice him transmute from your conception of your deceased fellow into the man who is truly in front of you.
just because im a spiritual advisor, doesnt mean i know everything, as not all readers can read themselves and yes we do have our problems.... |
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Like the blind leading the blind, Your playing the field, NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! IM NOT PLAYING THE FIELD!!!!!!!!! I HAVE NEVER DONE THAT... but i agree love is always blind........ 
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I would go with my gut.
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there is this guy that i met last yr on another dating site. and he seem nice and all but the problem was that he reminded me of my ex bf that died.. he had the built, down to him wearing a baseball cap and chewing gum... just like the ex.. but i didnt really give him the chance to get to know him... well he email me from another site and now i dont know if i should give him a chance. should i. the ex that died was verbale abusive... as this guy i dont know as i didnt give him the chance to get to know or be around me long enough If this new guy turns out to be verbally abusive as well, or has those signs, I suggest 2 courses of action: 1) Run 2) Introspectively, see what qualities about you are attracted to abusers. |
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