Topic: Jealousy
Max_Darkling's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:57 PM

flowerforyou Jealousy is a personality trait and not a gender traitflowerforyou

Yes that is correct

nonchalantwendy's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:59 PM
Men are more of avoiding things.......they would rather back off than ask why?

poohbearface19's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:00 PM
iam only jelus when i realy like a guy all dought i hate it when a guy is jeluse in a possisve way..........too the fact that if u even turn and look at another guy they freak out ......i had a guy before that evne kissing my cousins on cheek well piss him off i mean common family loser fooser

able_69's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:01 PM

Men are more of avoiding things.......they would rather back off than ask why?


Actually, that would be my first question!!!!frown

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:01 PM
I said , Yah, go dancing with your friends. Haven't done that in a while." to my ex gf.

She was pissed I WASN'T jealous.noway I think some women play with jealousy like fire.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:02 PM

Men are more of avoiding things.......they would rather back off than ask why?


I might be with you here too...

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:04 PM

I said , Yah, go dancing with your friends. Haven't done that in a while." to my ex gf.

She was pissed I WASN'T jealous.noway I think some women play with jealousy like fire.


I'm a "no stage 5 clingers" kinda girl, I need my space.

I even point out hot chics to guys...

But certain things make me not only jealous, but at times murderous.

missy51970's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:05 PM

I'm having 2 conversations right now about this.

Are women more jealous than men?

I think so. but what do I know??


It all depends on the woman/man...

I am not a jealous person... does nobody any good.. smooched

lacyribbon's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:07 PM
I believe if your content with your relationship, you have no reason to be jealous of someone.

DENISE_87's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:07 PM
Really it depends on who you are on the inside and there personallity. Cause there are some crazy guys and girls out there you know. That is all on that person and if you are doing some stupid things to make that person jealous then that is all on you.

lilangel2's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:07 PM
I don't understand jealousy....and I don't mean a tinge of jealousy we all get...I mean real pathetic "make yourself sick" jealousy...that is so fruitless. If somebody is more interested in someone else, it is time to just move on...no way I would make myself sick over it. You cannot control another human being...you do have some control over yourself. A little tinge of jealousy is healthy...if somebody flirts with your man or lady...should make you rather proud :smile:

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Tue 05/20/08 01:09 PM

I don't understand jealousy....and I don't mean a tinge of jealousy we all get...I mean real pathetic "make yourself sick" jealousy...that is so fruitless. If somebody is more interested in someone else, it is time to just move on...no way I would make myself sick over it. You cannot control another human being...you do have some control over yourself. A little tinge of jealousy is healthy...if somebody flirts with your man or lady...should make you rather proud :smile:


flowerforyou flowerforyou

CBBRYANT's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:09 PM
Edited by CBBRYANT on Tue 05/20/08 01:10 PM

affectionateman08's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:11 PM


I think that women just express their jealousy different then men. It isn't that one is capable of being more jealous then the other, its how its displayed.

I totally agree with you.... men tend to show jealousy in the possessive or untrusting stern form, women are sneaky they spy, go through cell phones, ask other ppl questions, etc
how true about women. (not all women) my ex-wife did all of the above and more but there was nothing to find.

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:11 PM
if envy is green because you desire the possessions of others


then jealousy is black because you desire to possess others - and THAT is poison

nonchalantwendy's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:11 PM


Men are more of avoiding things.......they would rather back off than ask why?


Actually, that would be my first question!!!!frown


Perhaps not all men but I have seen it in other cases they just stop calling and emailing you cuz you are not there everytime they need you ......then the funny thing is they say to me where ya been or you blew me off and that is not the case....I just have a life and family and friends!

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:12 PM

I don't understand jealousy....and I don't mean a tinge of jealousy we all get...I mean real pathetic "make yourself sick" jealousy...that is so fruitless. If somebody is more interested in someone else, it is time to just move on...no way I would make myself sick over it. You cannot control another human being...you do have some control over yourself. A little tinge of jealousy is healthy...if somebody flirts with your man or lady...should make you rather proud :smile:


That's true, and I always say, if they are gonna cheat, let her have him, he is HER problem now.

I have a scorpio rising, and my Venus is in scorpio... it is a trait that I have to learn to curb, but luckily I'm pretty logical and refuse to argue about it.

I dated a guy once that was insanly jealous, that didn't last too long...I'm a huge flirt.

But there is also respectful flirting and "oh I'm going to forget my girlfriend is here" kind of flirting. That's when I get murderous....grumble

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Tue 05/20/08 01:13 PM



Men are more of avoiding things.......they would rather back off than ask why?


Actually, that would be my first question!!!!frown


Perhaps not all men but I have seen it in other cases they just stop calling and emailing you cuz you are not there everytime they need you ......then the funny thing is they say to me where ya been or you blew me off and that is not the case....I just have a life and family and friends!


Wendy, the more you talk, the more I like you...flowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/20/08 01:14 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Tue 05/20/08 01:15 PM
I don't think any one gender specifically has more jealousy, personally I think jealousy stems from childhood and that can't be accounted for all the time (my case)...either way these are the kinds of questions that no matter your answer you're wrong.laugh

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Tue 05/20/08 01:15 PM




Men are more of avoiding things.......they would rather back off than ask why?


Actually, that would be my first question!!!!frown


Perhaps not all men but I have seen it in other cases they just stop calling and emailing you cuz you are not there everytime they need you ......then the funny thing is they say to me where ya been or you blew me off and that is not the case....I just have a life and family and friends!


Wendy, the more you talk, the more I like you...flowerforyou


Guess we have alot in common huh, my dear.......flowerforyou bigsmile