Topic: I'm not them!!!!!!
DrX's photo
Mon 05/19/08 11:55 PM
"One day some girls gonna break your heart
And ooh aint no pain like from the opposite sex
Gonna hurt bad but dont take it out on the next "- Will Smith

Am I the only one who trys to do this? Why is it I have to pay for the sins the ex commited, why do i have to carry the baggage he left? You know what, I just realized this, i don't, I won't. You wanna talk to me and be cool and laugh that's fine, you start trying to bring up stuff I didnt have a hand in, i'm gonna slap it down, I wasnt there, I didnt do it. You made the choices in your life that brought you to where you are, I'll be damned if I play the dumping ground for another man's garbage, if you can't see me for me, if you look and still see shadows of your past, just keep walking by, don't even say "Hi".
"I'M ME, NOT THEM!"

sorry had to vent, but that seems to be everybody I meet.

FaithfulOne78's photo
Mon 05/19/08 11:57 PM
flowerforyou AMEN!!!


I always pay for what an ex has done!!!

DrX's photo
Mon 05/19/08 11:58 PM

flowerforyou AMEN!!!


I always pay for what an ex has done!!!


my sister in fury

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 11:58 PM
you need a virgin....noway laugh

LIJOMA's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:00 AM

you need a virgin....noway laugh




laugh laugh


grumble flowerforyou

DrX's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:01 AM

you need a virgin....noway laugh


married one, divorced two years now, she still had issuesgrumble

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:02 AM
try hypnotising them...for get about your past ..forget about your past:tongue: laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:02 AM
(((DrX))) almost everyone carries scars.. It's how we heal them that will matter for the next relationship... Until we can step out and look from the outside in and realize our contribution to the demise of the relationship, we'll never let go of the pain b/c we'll keep blaming everyone else.. JMHO

DrX's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:04 AM

try hypnotising them...for get about your past ..forget about your past:tongue: laugh


yeah, wish I had tha Dracula skill

DrX's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:05 AM

(((DrX))) almost everyone carries scars.. It's how we heal them that will matter for the next relationship... Until we can step out and look from the outside in and realize our contribution to the demise of the relationship, we'll never let go of the pain b/c we'll keep blaming everyone else.. JMHO


Preach it to the choir!!

no photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:06 AM

"One day some girls gonna break your heart
And ooh aint no pain like from the opposite sex
Gonna hurt bad but dont take it out on the next "- Will Smith

Am I the only one who trys to do this? Why is it I have to pay for the sins the ex commited, why do i have to carry the baggage he left? You know what, I just realized this, i don't, I won't. You wanna talk to me and be cool and laugh that's fine, you start trying to bring up stuff I didnt have a hand in, i'm gonna slap it down, I wasnt there, I didnt do it. You made the choices in your life that brought you to where you are, I'll be damned if I play the dumping ground for another man's garbage, if you can't see me for me, if you look and still see shadows of your past, just keep walking by, don't even say "Hi".
"I'M ME, NOT THEM!"

sorry had to vent, but that seems to be everybody I meet.


laugh laugh laugh :tongue:

wilkit's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:20 AM

Dr you're not the only one.
Happens to women too.

Those types can kiss my a$$. Really they are not that hard to spot. Definitely not worth wasting time on.

Kharma, what goes around comes around.

Things will get better Dr, have faith in you.

drinker

DrX's photo
Tue 05/20/08 12:22 AM


Dr you're not the only one.
Happens to women too.

Those types can kiss my a$$. Really they are not that hard to spot. Definitely not worth wasting time on.

Kharma, what goes around comes around.

Things will get better Dr, have faith in you.

drinker


thank youflowerforyou

wilkit's photo
Tue 05/20/08 07:26 PM



Dr you're not the only one.
Happens to women too.

Those types can kiss my a$$. Really they are not that hard to spot. Definitely not worth wasting time on.

Kharma, what goes around comes around.

Things will get better Dr, have faith in you.

drinker


thank youflowerforyou



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