Okay so my boyfriend seems to be flirting with these other girls.. and i've confronted him about it and he keeps giving me the same answer : it's against what i believe in..
What should i do?

In english please??? His answer is what??

That makes no sense.

Your looking for a man for dating,so what's the difference in what your doing?

dump the loser before he cheats on you, if he hasn't already

start flirting 2

Welcome to the Forum..first post YAY!
Not sure if I am quite understanding the issue though, could u please elaborate sweety?

Flirting can be innocent fun within reason.....

I'm with her on this one...what exactly is his answer? He believes in flirting or his belief is against it?

Occassional Flirting is ok for me, but if it bothers you, I would just dump him, and move on..I mean after all u are on a datingsite..so thats a start.

well ive talked to a few americans, and whenever i ask them if they're single, they answer "im going out with a few"..here in philippines, only bf-gf go out for a date,,i dont know..am i makin any sense here?

Flirting is against what he believes in??

You asking him is against what he believes in??

He answers something you haven't told us, and flirting is against what YOU believe in??

Okay...
Well we met each other on this site Myyearbook and well i found out that he onnly lives a couple of hours away.. so we started talking then he asked me out and so we've been dating each other for a couple of weeks.. well anyway i logged onto his account one day and i found all these messages from these girls who he's been flirting with.. and so i confronted him since im tired of being cheated on and he said that he didn't believe in cheating on girls and that the girls are just friends..

If you've confronted him about it, and he doesn't seem to care then drop him.

Here is where your confusing choice comes in...and unfourtanetly none of us can really help you as we don't know him personally, or you for that matter. So you either take the comments with a grain of salt or you dump him for them, coin flip really.

Big no no. You violated his privacy in logging onto HIS account. For shame. A great book you might want to read is The Mark of Cain: An Anatomy of Jealousy. It really helps to learn that jealousy is an immature thing!

he told me i could log into his account whenever i wanted too.

It's something that will ONLY serve to fuel any jealousy. If you found incriminating evidence, and he allowed you to, he put it there SO you would see it. This brings me back to my first thought: dump the loser. lol

Guys are sneaky!

I think you are worrying about this too much already..u guys only been dating for a few weeks..I'd say dump him, because he is not going to change for you...and it is obviously bothering you a whole bunch..
I know, I have been burnt b4, cheated on trampled over, you are taking this realtionship more serious than he is, while you are really in to him, he is still shopping around for a girl..not sure if I would buy the whole " they are just friends thing"
just my 2 cents..lol