Topic: not sure
saefcnysn's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:09 PM
ok so here is the deal. there is this guy that i have gone out on a few dates with back in january but nothing ever came from it. he is too busy and i was also extremely busy at the time. so i have not seen him since about febuaury up until last night. where i had another date that did not turn out well. it turns up we were both at the same bar. so i met up with him and his friends and spent the evening with them. i had a ton of fun and his friends really seemed to like me. even invited me to join them every friday from now on. my problem is that i really like this guy. but how do i tell him? or do i not? just sit back and let things happen? also does the size of the woman make a differnece to the guy? i am about the same height as him maybe a little bit taller and i am just larger in general. he works and well i dont lol. does that bother guys at all or does it just bother woman? help! i need advice!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:10 PM
ohwell I think he's having an affairohwell

bastet126's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:11 PM
i say, tower over him and just enjoy flowerforyou

saefcnysn's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:12 PM

ohwell I think he's having an affairohwell

lol well he really cant be having an affair if we arent together. besides on know what he does on his free time. that is why i have never slept with him. :D

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:12 PM


ohwell I think he's having an affairohwell

lol well he really cant be having an affair if we arent together. besides on know what he does on his free time. that is why i have never slept with him. :D
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chickayoshi's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:14 PM
Edited by chickayoshi on Sat 05/17/08 08:14 PM
Wait and see if anything happens. Enjoy his company (as well as his friends). I'm sure something will brew up again. And size and height...no worries. I'm in the same boat. A guy I like (and he likes me in return) is my height. I'm also not that skinny...just have curves. Truth be told...there are guys that like curvy girls. glasses

looking4u52's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:18 PM
Life is too short to play games. Tell him you like him.
At least you will know where each other stands.

romeo1975's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:18 PM
patience is a virtue when it comes to love, not a lot of people have it that is why some people dont have luck in love, just bide your time until it is right, after all you might scare him away...
BTW the shape of a woman doesn't bother me in the least, i will take them any shape i can get them

no photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:18 PM
just sit on him until he agrees to give you what ever you want,lol

CBBRYANT's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:23 PM
go with your instincts!happy

aLittleBird's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:24 PM
.... i am about the same height as him maybe a little bit taller and i am just larger in general. he works and well i dont lol. does that bother guys at all or does it just bother woman? help! i need advice!


My advice is to just toss his a** on the kitchen floor have your way with him!! He'll be fine and he will love you forever!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

romeo1975's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:25 PM
as long as your not a major slob, i dont mind if a woman doesn't work, just understand that you may not get the finer things in life, unless you marry Donald Trump or something....
BTW i am trying to become like him and obtain a million dollars LOLlaugh

willy_cents's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:26 PM

.... i am about the same height as him maybe a little bit taller and i am just larger in general. he works and well i dont lol. does that bother guys at all or does it just bother woman? help! i need advice!


My advice is to just toss his a** on the kitchen floor have your way with him!! He'll be fine and he will love you forever!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



(((insert thumbs up icon here)))drinker drinker

looking4u52's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:28 PM
I don't think it matters if you have a job or not. What matters is if you have money or not. I would prefer a women that is independent financially, not having a job is a plus because then there is more free time to spend together. Everyone's situation is different.

no photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:30 PM
brokenheart

saefcnysn's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:31 PM

I don't think it matters if you have a job or not. What matters is if you have money or not. I would prefer a women that is independent financially, not having a job is a plus because then there is more free time to spend together. Everyone's situation is different.
oh i dont mean as a job work. but i mean like work out physically

looking4u52's photo
Sat 05/17/08 08:32 PM
That is too funny. I equate work with a job. Working out is always something you could do together.

therooster's photo
Sun 05/18/08 10:55 AM

ok so here is the deal. there is this guy that i have gone out on a few dates with back in january but nothing ever came from it. he is too busy and i was also extremely busy at the time. so i have not seen him since about febuaury up until last night. where i had another date that did not turn out well. it turns up we were both at the same bar. so i met up with him and his friends and spent the evening with them. i had a ton of fun and his friends really seemed to like me. even invited me to join them every friday from now on. my problem is that i really like this guy. but how do i tell him? or do i not? just sit back and let things happen? also does the size of the woman make a differnece to the guy? i am about the same height as him maybe a little bit taller and i am just larger in general. he works and well i dont lol. does that bother guys at all or does it just bother woman? help! i need advice!

:wink: kick back and let things evolve happy
:tongue: big women? some guys do and some guys don't :tongue: