I sorta know what you are going through. Just a few days ago I broke it off with a guy I had been with off and on with for the past 3-4 years. Out of the guys I dated so far, he was the one that just got me. He knew me better than I knew myself. We have split up like 5-6 times, always lasting a few months then split for 4-5 months and start talking again and those feelings would come back and we'd give it another try. However, my problem is that even though he was older (almost 33), he goofed off all the time and a lot of little things he did would irritate me. However, I thought because he knew me so well and loved me, things could work out. It's not always the case. If you can't say you are truly in love with this guy, it's best to break it off for good. Even though I enjoyed the time that we spent together, I can't get those years back and I'm not any closer to finding the one I'm met to be with.

Sounds like you need to take time to figure out about yourself. Surround yourself in things you like to do and meet people that have similar interests. Don't go rushing into a relationship with a guy just because you feel that he can protect you or is filling some void.

soo truee

I know what you meen. Maybe that feelin might not never go away, but you should be able to fulfill most of it.