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Topic: Ok I'm confused...
beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:27 PM
my ex did the exact same thing.. it was like he was trying to prove he had changed.. but he didnt.. dont sleep with him no matter what that will confuse it all that much more There's no way I'm sleeping with him. I don't even want to see him......but I did go get my hair done to show him what he threw away! hahaha

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:28 PM
maybe he wants you back?? He sent me a divorce decree. We are waiting on the court date. How can he want me back? men are stupid......we never know what we want until it's gone and then only if we know we can't have it back You summed it all up! Right on!

hunky62 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1894	Thu 05/15/08 02:29 PM
Who wants to bet that she gives it up...she got her hair done for what?? Yeah...right!!!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 05/15/08 02:30 PM
Why do you think? It's not brain surgery.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:31 PM
Who wants to bet that she gives it up...she got her hair done for what?? Yeah...right!!! haha not to sleep with him

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 05/15/08 02:32 PM
why not go out have a nice meal if you have a kid its better to get along

hunky62 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1894	Thu 05/15/08 02:33 PM
Who wants to bet that she gives it up...she got her hair done for what?? Yeah...right!!! haha not to sleep with him Who said anything about sleeping...haha...sqeak...squeak...squeak

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Thu 05/15/08 02:33 PM
sex.... he wants it...and isnt getting it anywhere right now... exactly! i know a girl who did this "dating" the ex thing and she ended up with herpes

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:34 PM
Who wants to bet that she gives it up...she got her hair done for what?? Yeah...right!!! haha not to sleep with him Who said anything about sleeping...haha...sqeak...squeak...squeak you did you twerp

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Thu 05/15/08 02:34 PM
Maybe he is trying to establish a "reasonable" new relationship with you. I told my ex-wife and kids that there would always be some kind of relationship between the 4 of us until we were all in the ground. It depends on us what kind of a relationship we would have. Try it and see.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:34 PM
why not go out have a nice meal if you have a kid its better to get along How about I just ask him to take me clothes shopping. Money better spent

hunky62 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1894	Thu 05/15/08 02:36 PM
who is the twerp...you didn't even get that I meant he wants to bang you...don't be an airhead...give head!!

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Thu 05/15/08 02:36 PM
The question I have is why did you two split up? Is he maybe interested in reconciliation?

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:37 PM
Maybe he is trying to establish a "reasonable" new relationship with you. I told my ex-wife and kids that there would always be some kind of relationship between the 4 of us until we were all in the ground. It depends on us what kind of a relationship we would have. Try it and see. I don't have a problem having a friendship with him....but don't freakin ask me out on a date...when you are about to ruin my child's life! Divorce sucks!

hunky62 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1894	Thu 05/15/08 02:37 PM
why don't you just have him leave $100 on the dresser after you give it up...

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 05/15/08 02:40 PM
why not go out have a nice meal if you have a kid its better to get along How about I just ask him to take me clothes shopping. Money better spent after dinner

Up2Us Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 3926	Thu 05/15/08 02:42 PM
Maybe he is trying to establish a "reasonable" new relationship with you. I told my ex-wife and kids that there would always be some kind of relationship between the 4 of us until we were all in the ground. It depends on us what kind of a relationship we would have. Try it and see. I don't have a problem having a friendship with him....but don't freakin ask me out on a date...when you are about to ruin my child's life! Divorce sucks! Don't know where you are in the mist of your circumstances, but communication is always vital.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:44 PM
The question I have is why did you two split up? Is he maybe interested in reconciliation? We split up twice....well why not be honest....I left twice, because I had numerous problems with one of his sons. He didn't make him respect me or my children. He would steal my son's belongings and lie and his Dad would take his side. We have a 3 yr old together that he has seen only a couple of times since he was 3 months old. He don't know his Dad. He's not only a Christian, but also a Pastor who can't control his children. Our family was always divided. The Bible says a house divided will not stand. That is what happened. He chose this divorce....he will live with the consequences and I will live with a son who longs for a Dad.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:46 PM
Maybe he is trying to establish a "reasonable" new relationship with you. I told my ex-wife and kids that there would always be some kind of relationship between the 4 of us until we were all in the ground. It depends on us what kind of a relationship we would have. Try it and see. I don't have a problem having a friendship with him....but don't freakin ask me out on a date...when you are about to ruin my child's life! Divorce sucks! Don't know where you are in the mist of your circumstances, but communication is always vital. I realize that....

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 05/15/08 02:47 PM
why don't you just have him leave $100 on the dresser after you give it up... uh because I'm not a whore and that offended me...