it doesn't matter how long it takes to unpack, talking to someone on the
phone doesn't take long and there are things such as hands free
headsets, I think too many people expect too much from these internet
sites.

Yeah but you can meet some great people and he did talk to her for
hours...she just needs to keep an open mind. Internet sites are made up
of people, just like bars or clubs. I'm a quality person and I'm here
talking to people and making friends. There must be something to it cuz
you are on it too!

I find th bs interesting I am not looking for anyone to ever meet in
person

That's cool....but there are some great subjects and there is nothing
wrong about having online friends!

I would give him the sume of twoweeks and then, piss on him and
be done with your worry,,,
No one should make another wait more than three or four days and THAT
would have problems to take THAT long...
Just think lightly until YOU KNOW inside that he wasn't real.....

I thank you all for your love,support and great advice. We are talking
once again. Still not as long as we use to but he explained why. I am
making plans to hopefully meet him in April.

no mistyblue I agree I have many online friends some in other countries.

see then the internet thing is a good thing..I am so happy for you
whisper!

Thanks misty :)

Whisper, just TRY to keep your FULL heart on hold until you meet
and see and relate with him eye to eye, alot of people have had problems
with the meeting and alot of pps do lie about their real lives and some
lie about or strech their truth and your meeting will let YOUR heart
KNOW!!!
CARE, AND TALK, just don't FALL til ya KNOW!!!!

LOVE IS GREAT,,AND IT CAN BE FOUND HERE,,,,I DID!!!
BUT ALOT HAVE LEAD ME WRONG HERE!!!

Thanks Iam. You are the best. I love your advice. I am so glad that you
found LA. You guys are both great people with ever greater hearts (if
that is possible) Love is a wonderful thing to find and hold onto.

Thanks again

Melissa

Your welcome Whispers and THANK YOU from both of us...
Yours just might be THE ONE??
I will hope and pray for you...

Thank you.

Uh,huh.......hhmmmmmmm....is this the same guy you were posting about a
few days ago? The one who was "chatting" with your friend behind your
back and you needed advice, blah, blah, blah......weren't you also the
one who appologized on another thread for having multiple profiles? I
smell bull****.......

hell if this is the same guy and he has not bouthwer trying to talk to
you forget him and fined some one thats realy wants you for you you
desive better i know your heart the right man is out there dont stand
for secound best you desuive better dizzydean no joke

Lily no disrespect intended but yes I was the one that asked for advice
a couple of days ago. So what. So yes I did make an extra account but I
apologized for it. And everybody here seemed to have forgotten it and
let it go. That was in the pass and that is were is should stay. Trust
me I paid for it. So no sense opening up old wounds. There is really no
point for it.

That was not my point. My point is, I think you are a very unhappy girl.
I think you struggle to find your place. I think you have little
self-esteem. I think you persue drama for the sake of having a "place".
I think this because I read your posts. A lot have to do w/ being wasted
or broken by a man. I would like to see you value yourself more than
this. You don't have to tip-toe around me when expressing yourself. I
can take it. Just be yourself and keep it ALL real. You don't have to be
messed up or screwed over to have something of value to offer others. I
can tell you're a nice kid, and i think that is where you should
begin......

I think you should lay some hints when it feels right.Look for his
reaction if its positive or if he pulls back.If his reaction is positive
then let him know how you feel.As far as the past you did your best to
make it right and start fresh and being real.Dont let ppl,that cant let
it be,discourage you.Them ppl are fault finders and like to use others
to draw attention off there faults.PPL like that are best
disregarded.Best of luck to you.

It is amazing how pixels on a computer screen can be so real. I did not
wake up this morning saying to myself Oh I think I am going to cry
today. But here I am...lol. Lily you are right about one thing. I am
unhappy. That is why when something or someone as it the case may be I
do my best to try to hold onto it. I am afraid that if I let the
littlest things slide then I will loose my happiness all over again. And
trust me being unhappy sucks BIG time as I am sure we all know. I have
been through a LOT of hell over the years that sometimes I just have a
hard time handling things. So I found an amazing site and thought I
would finally for once ask for help about a relationship for a change
instead of trying think that everything needs to be done my way. So to
you lily and everybody else that posted I thank you. Some of the replies
may be a bit harsh to me but oh well I am a big girl I can handle it.

yeh good luck whisper, like what slow said and what everyone else
said..moving does take time and can be a pain..give him time..but then
again, to be honest i would think he would call u and tell u whats going
on..unless he doesnt have your # either, but u said u talked on the
phone..in any case, take it easy, it will all work out..good
luck..