Topic: Is there such a thig as | |
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being overly cautious in a relationship?
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I do it all the time.
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Edited by
itsmetina
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Tue 05/13/08 07:14 AM
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i'd say so sometimes i think ya just stop thinking and take a risk
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I go for it and get burned
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I would say yes
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Edited by
yayforchae
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Tue 05/13/08 07:16 AM
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definitely... theres a fine balance to keep. you don't want to put yourself out there too much for fear of getting hurt, but not giving enough of yourself makes it more likely that the relationship will not make it
and this was totally my 200th post... woo woo woo |
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I think so, you could be come over cautious to the point were jealousy kicks in, and that can be a relationship breaker in my books.
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r u guys afraid of getting burned or afraid of taking a chance
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nah,when i'm in a relationship i wear 3 condoms at all times
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Sure there is!
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yeah guess so
you could run someone off entirely but, then again, if something is causing that caution and you avoided your intution and it turned out bad could it be you tempted fate? |
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is that to build gurth
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r u guys afraid of getting burned or afraid of taking a chance |
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nah,when i'm in a relationship i wear 3 condoms at all times |
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Only if you start looking for reasons to doubt them when there is none.
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I'm so afraid of it falling apart, I make it happen by holding back. And, on the other hand, I sometime's give too much to the wrong person by trying too hard.
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Only if you start looking for reasons to doubt them when there is none. |
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Absolutely. But usually when you are overly cautious it is due to the fact that you've been screwed over in one or more past relationships. Sometimes you need to just go with it and take that next chance.
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Only if you start looking for reasons to doubt them when there is none. |
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I'd rather have it work out the way my last relationship did than lose out on the chance for happiness, though. Being to guarded can keep people away. I am pretty open and quite understanding, and I feel a need for reciprocity in that.
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