So Ive had abad relationship in the past that after I started dating this woman for awhile her kids aged 7 and 4 started calling me this other guys name....Turns out my it was my ex,s "Best friend" that happend to be a male . Well find out later she was cheating with him and they spent more time together than we did...hence confusion for the kid....

Well recently met another persons kids and after seeing me in there moms bed they started calling me this other guys name....Just wondering if anyone has any experience with this...

No, I havent. Thats horrbile. Thats why my son is not involved in my dating. No one meets my kiddo until things are serious.

I'm usually the bad one with names. Weird though - you must have some serious doubts - hope things get resolved for you.

Why are children seeing you in their mother's bed? It makes me wonder what kind of women you are dating to expose their children to such things.

My child does not meet the men I date and will not meet them unless I'm in a serious relationship.

thats my thoughts too.

Why are other people's kids seeing you in bed with their mom?

so true, no one meets my kids until we make a committment.

all i can say, is that is awful..makes you wonder.

And there is a question to the sincerity of the "ladies" he dates....hhhmmmm do we see a pattern?

Um..... yeah.

I'd be careful about that. No excuse, but dude, you should know better.

Sounds like she's um, how shall I say this. . . . open, about being with someone. When it comes to kids, dude, you don't shoplift the pootie. Even if she insists on it.

Man up. Do us guys proud. (=

Hi young lady. How have you been? For the thread> watch who your dating.

Yes. And I see a pattern of children knowing too many "other" guy's names. Not good.

Ya that was my thing to and hers or at least thats what she said . I mean about being serious b4 meeting the kids but we only had one date then she wanted to take me home and well Im pretty ashamed I knew better to say no but I didnt because I wasnt using the right head and now I feel pretty bad .

Does your bike go backwards....when you back peddal I mean?

Unless sex is all that you want, I would run away from women like that. IMO

No its not even the kind of relationship Im looking for , I surprised myself by even excepting . I think I hurt her pretty bad too because she wants to get all serious and I dont . All I can say is sorry but thats not really good enough....

Keep talking babe.......

No shovels required.

Hmmm...most women are smart enough to know that if they sleep with a man they just met, there won't be a relationship.

Lesson learned...

and only in one page too.

there's always the risk of getting attached, when jumping into bed...but like you said, lesson learned.