I think I wrote too much in my profile and sound desperate also, I've been working on putting some different photos of myself on the site, and I have a bit of a variety, but I'm wondering if less would be better.

All opinions are greatly appreciated! Negatives ones are the best SO LONG as they say how to fix things.

Try " Mutual Match" Your only one click away from true Romance!!

about me section is to long...other than that...do what Pats says and try mutual match

You back from fishin?

If you care for female feedback, then:
I agree with Etrain - about yourself is too long

Mutual Match didn't work for me

I'm back & forth

already been through the mutal match thing...

How should I shorten it? Is it supposed to me more of a teaser than a movie trailer?

haha

a lot of information but everything looks ok

only thing i can suggest is in you profile you say you drink occasionally and you've set your filter to no drinkers, you might want to look at that, unless that was what you wanted then GOOD LUCK to you in your search

Oh my gosh I had no idea, thank-you!

you're welcome

All fixed! You're the best!

just lookin out for a sister

I'll tell you right off your biggest mistake is limiting your mail to an age group and more importantly to a gender. You can't benefit more from an online site than the 'buddies' you'll make that are same gender.

It's all part of the online community process and you are denying yourself all those relationships. I mean it's your call girlfriend, but 1/2 my friends are women. We are there for each other when our hearts get broken, or we break someone else's heart. And to just laugh it up.

As to age, who can't use friends of any age? I think almost every poster on JSH will agree our friends we've met on JSH far surpase the hot, romantic 'dates' we've had

And another suggestion .. get involved in the forums. We are a community, we watch each other's backs, compare interesting info and have a blast.

That's all from me .. enjoy babe and welcome to JSH

Gosh, you say you are not beautiful, more the girl-next-door. You are lovely looking!! I don't know if you've changed it by the time I write this, but other than a few misspells, it's a nice profile and you come off as a well-rounded person. Best wishes to you and make sure you keep up in the forums as you will surely make buddies!!

My suggestion is change your main pic, i like the middle one better. Also your entire second paragraph in your about me section could be deleted. People don't need to know your entire life history off the bat. Save that for the emails. that's jmho though

you have a great smile! and good job on the profile, perhaps a little tmi, save something for conversation! good luck chica!

ALL fixed! Thanks! I didn't realize that the filters actually blocked people I though it was more of a prefrences thing! Lots of love! Thanks

I know my profile is long, and everyone is suggesting to save something for the e-mails. But I have so much to say! I've got tons of ammo's for e-mails. I'm not worried about being at a loss of converstation.

What I'm worried bout is that it's so much to read no one wants to go thru it all? Or is that a good thing, I say enough about me that people are actually interested in me and not just a photo.