Why would you talk to someone and then stop and not tell them why?
that has not happened to me, cuz I don't talk to no one for relationship
on the phone!! but I have seen many females and males
posting the same thing about people having a problem with closure,

If your one of those people that like to talk to people and then stop
calling them like they are not important, that is not a nice thing to
do!! don't hurt others feelings, anything you do to others, will be done
to you because that is just life and **** happens, please just tell them
that you don't want to continue the relationship and don''t just stop
without an excuse or something
is really sad to see that some people have little or no respect for
others feelings,, come on man!! lets be sensitive to others feelings!!!

please !!!!

thank you morena well said, posts like this are coming more frequently
lately sad to see

Morena

We call them "user's/player's/etc. I feel a genuine pity for them.
They are petty/sick people that have no integrity in their soul. They
don't know what their missing, in capable of taking a chance; baring
their REAL feelings, if they even know what those feelings are. Poss.
they have been deeply hurt & want revenge or has our society become so
overrun w/the idea of grab all you can for you & to HELL w/all others.
Been on both sides & can only tell you which one I think feelas better.
Treat Others As I Want To Be Treated. I will live that every day of the
rest of my life.

Well sure that alot of the ones that are the ones that start talking to
someone then all of a sudden just stop. Are just getting there kicks or
are already in a relantionship with someone they play the person till it
starts getting to serious and the other one starts bringing up to meet
them and they know it cant happen so they just quit drop the game and
move on to another. Hummm so when I do start talking to someone if I'm
interested in them and we have made it to the phone talking. Then hey I
mention the meeting they will either contiune or they will drop it like
a hot potatoe and there gone. But then myself I can't see letting my
heart get that involved in just a few weeks before you really know much
about that person this is the internet it is gonna happen so the ones
that are letting there hearts over run them need to think and let it go
slow but take certain steps find out what you can about that person.
Suggest a meet and see if they bak at it if you get red flags don't
ignore them or your gut feelings. Saftey is very important when dealing
with others on the internet. It's like anything else don't always
believe everything your read or hear till you feel certain that person
is telling you the truth.

Morena -- I think there are a lot of contributing factors to why this
happens, and every situation is different, but I think there are a few
elements that generally enter into it, in varying degrees: lack of
honesty, lack of communication, and lack of respect & consideration.

I have a friend who went through this numerous times with guys she met
all kinds of different ways. She finally met a truly decent guy and got
married, and her husband is one of the finest and most decent men on the
face of the earth. I have even teased her about this, telling her "If
you and Rick ever get divorced, I'LL marry him," which I probably
wouldn't actually do, seeing as how I'm male and straight, but I was
trying to make a point!

Her situation does give me some hope that there are still some decent
people out there. Finding them, alas, is another matter entirely....!

there lots of guys here who are my friends and others that I got the
time to read their post, that are gentelman and I know they wouldn't
hurt someone like that, but they are posting it here because some guys
are doing it, and don't want everyone to think that this guys are all
the same, we have wonderful men on this site, who care for us females
and I know that's not how they act
and also females adorable females who have beautiful feelings
I wouldn't want to see them hurt,
and Im posting this tread in hopes that who is doing this can see that
is wrong and maybe take in to consideration others feelings and at least
make an excuse before dropping someone, not just pretend they don't
exits anymore!!!

JMO I think alot of us start talking to people because we are
attracted,have something in common, interact for what ever reason. We
get involved not thinking of the miles between or the life styles.
We don't take into consideration that it is not practical to be able
to up & move or even go visit for a week end or if you do why can't you
stay!!!
Then it just gets frustrating! because we can't do mych about it.. you
don't want to say it's pointless to go on & everybody wants more, so you
grow apart or to stop the hurt people will avoid others..

it's hard to deal with cyber love!

Why do we need to go LOVE thing so quick? Love & REAL relationships
take TIME to develope. still think we want to mve much to fast, end up
putting the cart ahead of the horse & creating more problems than we
realize. If I am ever going to get deeply involved again, it will take
a lot of WORK. Maybe I am an exception, not the rule. Just think we
want too much to fast.

Hey Morena, the reason is that these type of people probably have a hard
time with closure in all aspects of their life, I get e-mails from
married men, men in relationships and so on.Also some woman are so damm
thirsty that they accept any way a man comes at them, if you are on here
looking for true love,you are making your 1st mistake,and if you don't
know the proper questions to ask a potential mate,then you just made
your second..

hi Mary!
don't get freaked out i view everybody before i respond to a post, So
true what you said. that would be a good thread to start gurl.. what we
need to look for. things to ask.

& Sage these people that say "I LOVE YOU" like their sayin have a nice
day! I don't understand people..
that neediness!!