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JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Thu 05/08/08 11:59 AM
I don't think it is rude. I find it flattering that they want to make contact. You should be flattered as well, could be that nobody would ever want to talk with you, and that wouldn't be so good, would it?

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 05/08/08 11:59 AM
Don't think it's rude. I'm flattered someone wants to talk to me. Hear hear my kind of attitude

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Thu 05/08/08 12:00 PM
Well! I Never!!That's simply preposterous.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 05/08/08 12:00 PM
I don't think it is rude. I find it flattering that they want to make contact. You should be flattered as well, could be that nobody would ever want to talk with you, and that wouldn't be so good, would it? hear hear my kind of attitude why every one seems to be paranoid

Zilla81 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 443	Thu 05/08/08 12:00 PM
I don't think it is rude. I find it flattering that they want to make contact. You should be flattered as well, could be that nobody would ever want to talk with you, and that wouldn't be so good, would it? This is exactly my point...If the women didnt get the IM's or e-mails, the forum topic would be "This site sucks, no one's ever on or "whats wrong with my profile"

rush2001 Joined Thu 04/17/08 Posts: 2577	Thu 05/08/08 12:01 PM
I still think that it is more polite to email and ask first.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 05/08/08 12:02 PM
I don't think it is rude. I find it flattering that they want to make contact. You should be flattered as well, could be that nobody would ever want to talk with you, and that wouldn't be so good, would it? This is exactly my point...If the women didnt get the IM's or e-mails, the forum topic would be "This site sucks, no one's ever on or "whats wrong with my profile" who was the person who said with women you can't win Take a bow

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Thu 05/08/08 12:02 PM
I ignore Im requests If we havn't talked on email some first. Maybe I shouldn't...but, I do.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 05/08/08 12:04 PM
I still think that it is more polite to email and ask first. why would it be rude if a person said I am sorry am I intruding as an opening gambit. I am sure if a lady IM you without knowing you to ask your opinion about a guy you wont be taken aback.

Zilla81 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 443	Thu 05/08/08 12:05 PM
Question: If someone wanted to buy you ladies a drink in a bar, would you want them to send you a letter first?

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 05/08/08 12:06 PM
Question: If someone wanted to buy you ladies a drink in a bar, would you want them to send you a letter first? like the thirties via a waiter wink wink

Zilla81 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 443	Thu 05/08/08 12:07 PM
Question: If someone wanted to buy you ladies a drink in a bar, would you want them to send you a letter first? like the thirties via a waiter wink wink Lol, give this note to table #5 and ask her permission for me to speak with her.

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Thu 05/08/08 12:08 PM
Maybe rude was my wrong choice of word. The one time that happened to me it was very uncomfortable getting an IM and not even having the time to look at a profile before accepting. By the way after all was said and done, she came off as slightly psychotic. Makes me kind of gunshy.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Thu 05/08/08 12:09 PM Edited by lilangel2 on Thu 05/08/08 12:10 PM
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lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Thu 05/08/08 12:09 PM
Question: If someone wanted to buy you ladies a drink in a bar, would you want them to send you a letter first? I've never been to a bar in my life...not that I don't drink...just that I married so young and my husband never took me to one. Didn't miss much, I guess.

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Thu 05/08/08 12:10 PM
My IM has been turned off for so long I almost forgot that the site had it I just turned it. Figured it has been awhile. But what is the big deal? I mean just like e-mail, and you except that from people that you do not know.

Zilla81 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 443	Thu 05/08/08 12:11 PM
edit You didnt miss much. Just alot of note passing, soda drinking, and really good singing and dancing taking place.

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Thu 05/08/08 12:11 PM
Question: If someone wanted to buy you ladies a drink in a bar, would you want them to send you a letter first? No, but I would not be comfortable if he was hiding behind something and I couldn't see who was asking!

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Thu 05/08/08 12:12 PM
No I would invite it. I love to talk. I would ask for a picture though so I know who i picture who I am talking to.

Zilla81 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 443	Thu 05/08/08 12:13 PM
Question: If someone wanted to buy you ladies a drink in a bar, would you want them to send you a letter first? No, but I would not be comfortable if he was hiding behind something and I couldn't see who was asking! You can look at their profile. Just do a search on their user name before you decide to accept or not.