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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation.
![]() The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? |
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your getting mental
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Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites?
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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. ![]() The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? Niceness/openness on this site is in inverse proportion to distance Amen take care of it ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I deal with it ! I talk on the phone and wait for august when we get to see each other
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You could always get a mail order bride from Russia.
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![]() ![]() I cant afford the round trip ticket.... ![]() |
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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. ![]() The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? I don't know, seems to me you're finding women who are afraid of commitment. I've experienced the same thing, men email me intensely for a few days and then they seem to lose interest when it seems like it might actually become something besides conversation; just one of the drawbacks of internet dating. That's one of the many reasons I'm only on this site for the forums. Good luck to you though. ![]() |
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Well, I can be very open with you as you live in CA....
![]() No... I just think that it is less likely that you can focus on only what you want to see or portray in a closer proximity situation. You have to be reserved, and let things come out slower. But really, for me, I could care less either way. If a guy who sparked my interest was local, I'd say hey let's grab a coffee. That has scated many guys away. I'm just a person to person sort of person. |
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Well, I can be very open with you as you live in CA.... ![]() No... I just think that it is less likely that you can focus on only what you want to see or portray in a closer proximity situation. You have to be reserved, and let things come out slower. But really, for me, I could care less either way. If a guy who sparked my interest was local, I'd say hey let's grab a coffee. That has scated many guys away. I'm just a person to person sort of person. yeah....me too....what she said ![]() |
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Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites? Its possible, I never go out side during the day sence I broke my glasses! So yea they could O_O LOL, I just wouldnt be able to see them! |
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Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites? Its possible, I never go out side during the day sence I broke my glasses! So yea they could O_O LOL, I just wouldnt be able to see them! |
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![]() ![]() Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. |
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![]() ![]() Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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![]() ![]() Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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![]() ![]() Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It was a little threesome...you guys were good but I was incredible ![]() |
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![]() ![]() Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It was a little threesome...you guys were good but I was incredible ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. ![]() The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? My boy lives in another state. That's completely delicious, The expectation thing makes me more and more excited about him. When he calls I feel buterflies in my chest..I love distance ![]() ![]() |
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