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Entering an already made family or having a family of your own, we all know about different types of love.
The love we have for our children, our partners, family, etc. Doubt a secure grown up would be intimidated/jealous by a child. Just my opinion. |
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Entering an already made family or having a family of your own, we all know about different types of love. The love we have for our children, our partners, family, etc. Doubt a secure grown up would be intimidated/jealous by a child. Just my opinion. |
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Mon 05/05/08 06:55 PM
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now jealousy from the child i can definately understand they feel they have to share now..... and some dont want to and that is age depending also..... and is normal for a child.... but not an adult
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Entering an already made family or having a family of your own, we all know about different types of love. The love we have for our children, our partners, family, etc. Doubt a secure grown up would be intimidated/jealous by a child. Just my opinion. |
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Wasnt referring to you Jen, I commented in general. I have seen many families go thru this ordeal, insecurities of babies, sharing one's love.
My personal opinion is that a secure grown up knows what he/she has. You are absolutely right, your ex's jealousy (of ur son) was a definite sign of immaturity/insecurity. His personal problem (JMO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Wasnt referring to you Jen, I commented in general. I have seen many families go thru this ordeal, insecurities of babies, sharing one's love. My personal opinion is that a secure grown up knows what he/she has. You are absolutely right, your ex's jealousy (of ur son) was a definite sign of immaturity/insecurity. His personal problem (JMO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Wasnt referring to you Jen, I commented in general. I have seen many families go thru this ordeal, insecurities of babies, sharing one's love. My personal opinion is that a secure grown up knows what he/she has. You are absolutely right, your ex's jealousy (of ur son) was a definite sign of immaturity/insecurity. His personal problem (JMO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Sorry you had to go thru that truly, but on the positive thats over 100lbs you have lost. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll remember that...Maybe that is why I lost so much weight afterwards...Things that make you go Hmmmmmm... ![]() |
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ha! he was good for something
![]() ![]() ![]() I say the same of my ex ![]() |
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Edited by
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Mon 05/05/08 06:56 PM
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ps when i said jealosy of a child i meant jealousy from a child.... not an adult being jealous of a child.... just to make that clear cause i reread what i wrote and some may have taken that wrong
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ps when i said jealosy of a child i meant jealousy from a child.... not an adult being jealous of a child.... just to make that clear cause i reread what i wrote and some may have taken that wrong ![]() ![]() children are very territorial but if they are treated the same (pre partner) and including them will help them get over their jealous feelings. communication is key. good luck to all (jmo) |
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Yes I am and I wish I am not . It is a part of love and care .
It is not insecurity ; it is a feeling that something so valuable must not be lost or shared by others . It is not a weakness because as soon as things start bothering me ; I just run away and never be back again . I can smell trouble from far ,far ,far away . |
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