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Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 05/04/08 06:41 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!!

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Sun 05/04/08 06:42 PM
Whats the hurry?

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Sun 05/04/08 06:42 PM
<----turns the clash on "should i stay or should i go"

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 05/04/08 06:42 PM
Whats the hurry? frustration!

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 05/04/08 06:43 PM
<----turns the clash on "should i stay or should i go" what?

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 05/04/08 06:44 PM
<----turns the clash on "should i stay or should i go" bebops around the room

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 05/04/08 06:45 PM
dont leave Erica

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 05/04/08 06:46 PM
dont leave Erica I'm not having much luck in the dating area, though!! I guess for me, this is more "friends"!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sun 05/04/08 06:46 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Hey, I've been here 17 months and have had no luck at all either. I gave up looking for anyone here ages ago. But I stick around for the friends, the forums, and the fun. If I'm going to meet anyone, it will be in real life, not on a dating site....but there are still a lot of great people here, people worth knowing and talking with.... Stick around, you never know....

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 05/04/08 06:47 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Uhm, stab in the dark here, but could it be because you are crying about it? Call me crazy but.... ya, that would be my guess.

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Sun 05/04/08 06:48 PM
Take a step back and evaluate and change your "need" to a "want" THat special someone may sign up tommorow or next week

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 05/04/08 06:48 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Hey, I've been here 17 months and have had no luck at all either. I gave up looking for anyone here ages ago. But I stick around for the friends, the forums, and the fun. If I'm going to meet anyone, it will be in real life, not on a dating site....but there are still a lot of great people here, people worth knowing and talking with.... Stick around, you never know.... listen to Lex... he's always right

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 05/04/08 06:49 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Hey, I've been here 17 months and have had no luck at all either. I gave up looking for anyone here ages ago. But I stick around for the friends, the forums, and the fun. If I'm going to meet anyone, it will be in real life, not on a dating site....but there are still a lot of great people here, people worth knowing and talking with.... Stick around, you never know.... listen to Lex... he's always right Unless it's about similes

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 05/04/08 06:50 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Hey, I've been here 17 months and have had no luck at all either. I gave up looking for anyone here ages ago. But I stick around for the friends, the forums, and the fun. If I'm going to meet anyone, it will be in real life, not on a dating site....but there are still a lot of great people here, people worth knowing and talking with.... Stick around, you never know.... I guess, I like the forums!! Thanx, Lex! I'll give it a little more time!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 05/04/08 06:50 PM
You already had luck once Erica. Just give it a little time darling. You cant just push a few buttons and make it happen.

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 05/04/08 06:51 PM
You already had luck once Erica. Just give it a little time darling. You cant just push a few buttons and make it happen. I know, but I wouldn't exactly call it "luck", but I got a friend anyways!

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Sun 05/04/08 06:52 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Welcome to my life! But what's even worse for me, is that if they decide I'm "decent" enough looking for a date, once they get to know my personality, I'm history.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sun 05/04/08 06:52 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Hey, I've been here 17 months and have had no luck at all either. I gave up looking for anyone here ages ago. But I stick around for the friends, the forums, and the fun. If I'm going to meet anyone, it will be in real life, not on a dating site....but there are still a lot of great people here, people worth knowing and talking with.... Stick around, you never know.... listen to Lex... he's always right Tanya, apparently you have never met my ex-wife -- actually, I'm glad about that....!!

forever_fifites Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1092	Sun 05/04/08 06:53 PM
stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!! Me thinks you are cute but I had to dig to actually see what you looked like. I think there are a lot of guys like me, even younger ones, who just move on when your picture is not showing. Take your best pic and make it your main pic. As I said I am just a normal visually oriented guy and look what it says at the bottom of my profile: "Your profile must contain some basic info and pic of your face close up. Dogs, other animal pics or cartoons do not count. I have a dog and I’ve been to Disney Land. Yes, my pics are recent, this is just how I look." It's just a guy thing but it's important so why would you hide your pic when you are cute to start with.