Yes, it crashed into me until I learned how to step aside and take my time choosing more carefully.

maybe your just looking in the wrong direction. You gotta find a man who really knows what treating a woman is really about. A man who still believes in chivalry and respecting women. A man who is filled with honour and would not tarnish his reputation by treating you badly. Hmmmm sounds like you need a Marine.

Somewhere. My theory is, its probably righ here on JSH. Everyone here complains they found a great person, just too far away. I don't think your soul mate lives next door. (Ive only seen that happen once...litterally)

We all need marines. Send them to me!

its out there, and when the time is right it will find you, or so I have been told.

Dont rush it... find happines somewhere else... your family... I enjoy going to my nieces soccer games & watching a movie with my sister or just cooking dinner for my son... these little things have come to mean alot to me!

Sooo true... who said your soulmate lives in your town...LOL

Who said true love is even on this planet?

I've been in love with women who called me their soul-mate, then had no problem tossing me to the curb in a heartbeat. I found a person who I felt in my heart was my soul-mate and she feels nothing for me. She's rather show affection to a total stranger than someone she's known for two years.

Go figure.

The advice to stop looking is good advice. That's when I suspect it will sneak up on you.

...in Loves defense...Love is synonymous with life...the fact that we exist beyond ourselves in someone else's idea of worthy is an extension of that love/life...I am the sum of all the love/feelings the world and the creatures in it have decided to grace me with...I am alive because of love...I have wanted to die because of the lack or misconstruing of it...but I refuse to live w/o it...

I think it's out there- we just have to find someone that is in love with us.

OH it is out there...I think it finds you when you least expect it!! It amazes me that it can be someone that we never even thought of!!! So be careful where you look because before you know it, you might be staring in the eyes of the right one for you!!

You already have love. I see a playpen and you claim to have a child. Romantic love really is less important than the love of a parent for a child.

you have gotten some great advice so far, and I say heed it all. IMO you should take sometime for yourself, and find out what you want. You have already been married twice and you are soooo young. I thinking spending time with the little one will do you more good than fussing about whether you have a man or not. Don't go out looking to find someone to fill an imaginary whole you think you have. Someone more important needs you now, and that will need to be taken care of first.

thank you you r very right my son is my life and my love

Mathmatically most people have a 6 in a million chance of finding the ideal partner, which means mathmatically I have a 3 in a million chance...your better off than I am.

thank you everyone for your advive you are all right and were so much help thanks again

A friend told me love its faith. Can see it but you hope for it. Its always there

Love's out there

Somewhere

yes it is out there. And yes I am certain yuo will find it. I met my love abuot a year ago, right here on JSH, thuogh she isnt on here anymore.

I have been trying to raise the money to move over near her so we could get together, and just finally got it rounded up.

One drawback for me is, I specifically told her not to wait for me, as I did nt knwo how long it would take to raise the money, and I wanted to know she was happy and cared for, so right now she is seeing someone else

I am still going ot move closer to her, as she IS the love of my ife, and the best friend I ave never had prior to meeting her. Maybe thigns will work out so that we get together, maybe not. Maybe nothign will hapeen for 50 years, but I know she is there, and as long as she is happy and content, so am I.

So my advise, is don't worry about it, and keep looking. Just dont expect it to be anything set in stone.




And yes she does know how I feel (considering I have told her more than once, lol)