if your divorced are you expected to make sure you son/daughter has a gift for mom's day, father's day, everyones birthday, christmas and etcc.. if the other parent dosent want to buy them or tells the child that days not important to them (the other parent) and they dont want to celebraity it??

i try to keep up but its getting hard sometimes i dont till after the fact my daughter dad told her not to worry about a gift.

like christmas i took her shopping for my side of the family, we talked about it he was gonna take her shopping for his mom and his mom for him. i ended up taking her shopping after christmas to get them presents because he told it didnt matter. with moms day coming up, should i just get his mother a gift from our daughter ??

help plzzzzzzzzzz

As far as buying her grandmother a gift for mothers day, ther is no need. It is MOTHERS day after all.

However, as far as other holidays go, if her dad says dont worry about it in regards to a gift forhim, then dont worry about it, unless your daughter wants to do so anyway; leave it up to her.
In regards to her grandparents hwoever, do not loisten to her father if he is syaing do not warry about it in regards to them. He is being an ass if tat is the case. You can only takeinto account what each individual p[erson wants or believes, including your daughter.
Hope this helps