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If you had an argument with someone through email, and told them that you were never going to contact them again and instructed them to never contact you again, what would you think if they wrote you back and at the end of the mail, they said the very same thing, except in all caps? Would you think they were daring you to write them or just repeating the same thing you said out of spite? If someone needs to effectively say, "You can't fire me, I quit" the outcome hasn't changed. Okay, so I accept their resignation too. 
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If you had an argument with someone through email, and told them that you were never going to contact them again and instructed them to never contact you again, what would you think if they wrote you back and at the end of the mail, they said the very same thing, except in all caps? Would you think they were daring you to write them or just repeating the same thing you said out of spite? If someone needs to effectively say, "You can't fire me, I quit" the outcome hasn't changed. Okay, so I accept their resignation too.
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tell him it's just a fine beautiful day!!!(and it's night) or what a fine lunch we had at the pig farm this afternoon. 
i hope this helps calleigh, with these silly, hurtful ones, just take it for what it is, silliness. there are a lot of really good people on here that you will meet, and some that you've already met, that makes the others small enough in numbers not to worry about....and you being from a tough town...he should watch who he's messin with!! cause just to live there, you gotta know how to take care of yourself. (i used to breakdance 30 years ago there) |
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tell him it's just a fine beautiful day!!!(and it's night) or what a fine lunch we had at the pig farm this afternoon.
i hope this helps calleigh, with these silly, hurtful ones, just take it for what it is, silliness. there are a lot of really good people on here that you will meet, and some that you've already met, that makes the others small enough in numbers not to worry about....and you being from a tough town...he should watch who he's messin with!! cause just to live there, you gotta know how to take care of yourself. (i used to breakdance 30 years ago there) oh really now?
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Yeah we had an emotional connection and a tiny part of me still likes him, but I will not give him the satisfaction of writing him back. My pride won't let me do that.
That tiny part is more like a bigger part....if you are asking advice about it on a blog. Is he a good person, in general? Someone who you may be able to connect with, with a bit of patience or forgiveness? Was he rude just once? There is something that makes you feel this way, something apparently good about him...for you to still feel this. Pride is a terrible thing sometimes, it keeps us from those who may love us one day-and vice versa. Usually when someone is rude to me and I have tried all recourse and run out of patience, I do block them but usually if I have had some investment with him...I let them know why first. Doesn't sound like you want to block him... |
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salt & pepper popper breakers.
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Yeah we had an emotional connection and a tiny part of me still likes him, but I will not give him the satisfaction of writing him back. My pride won't let me do that.
That tiny part is more like a bigger part....if you are asking advice about it on a blog. Is he a good person, in general? Someone who you may be able to connect with, with a bit of patience or forgiveness? Was he rude just once? There is something that makes you feel this way, something apparently good about him...for you to still feel this. Pride is a terrible thing sometimes, it keeps us from those who may love us one day-and vice versa. Usually when someone is rude to me and I have tried all recourse and run out of patience, I do block them but usually if I have had some investment with him...I let them know why first. Doesn't sound like you want to block him... Well, the sad thing is, this is normal for us, the back and forth thing. However, he's never actually told me not to write him before. And yeah I guess I'm not willing to block him because I want to see if he writes again, so I can ignore him.
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Well, the sad thing is, this is normal for us, the back and forth thing. However, he's never actually told me not to write him before. And yeah I guess I'm not willing to block him because I want to see if he writes again, so I can ignore him.
You ever meet them couples that are married and they fight, fight, bicker, argue? Yup that is how they communicate and love each other...not my bag..but many couples do it.... okay, got to say this and giggln my ass off ovah here...let me see if I got this straight...you want to see if he writes again..so you can ignore him??? WOWIE
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Well, the sad thing is, this is normal for us, the back and forth thing. However, he's never actually told me not to write him before. And yeah I guess I'm not willing to block him because I want to see if he writes again, so I can ignore him.
You ever meet them couples that are married and they fight, fight, bicker, argue? Yup that is how they communicate and love each other...not my bag..but many couples do it.... okay, got to say this and giggln my ass off ovah here...let me see if I got this straight...you want to see if he writes again..so you can ignore him??? WOWIE
LOL yeah it feeds my ego to see he cares. 
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LOL yeah it feeds my ego to see he cares.
Okay, I am lost, doesn't take much
So, if you know he cares...and you care??? So why not work on the  connection? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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LOL yeah it feeds my ego to see he cares.
Okay, I am lost, doesn't take much
So, if you know he cares...and you care??? So why not work on the connection? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Cause he's mean to me. |
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Cause he's mean to me. oh, then screw him! If he is rude and a jerk..you should just block him. Don't settle for a meanspirited guy...you are a cutie..you can find much better! Hang in there! 
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Cause he's mean to me. oh, then screw him! If he is rude and a jerk..you should just block him. Don't settle for a meanspirited guy...you are a cutie..you can find much better! Hang in there!
Thanks 
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If you had an argument with someone through email, and told them that you were never going to contact them again and instructed them to never contact you again, what would you think if they wrote you back and at the end of the mail, they said the very same thing, except in all caps? Would you think they were daring you to write them or just repeating the same thing you said out of spite? sounds like a case of needing to get the last word in...unless you have the same need, drop it and move on. |
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