Sorry a head of time for my spelling i am in tears as I type. This guy
that I have met. And we have become really close. We do not talk or see
anybody else. We are online GF/BF...lol. But any way. I was talking to
him on MSN and thought I would add one of my female friends to the
conversation. She added him to her contact list and niether on tells me.

it does seem a bit strange to me.

Yeah, it seems weird that you'd be bothered by it. Thats not a dig
against you, just seems you're too worried. Let it be.

ok, let me get this straight, you are in tears as you type, but in the
same paragraph you LOL? hmmm

If i did that it would mean I wasn't serious
(just me)

oh CHRIST!!!!! jesus, u girls have got to learn that men are looking for
one thing. as you have just proved to me AGAIN. the guy is looking at
all possibilities, including your friend. it's no surprise. This
commercialized world of endless love does not exist, no matter how much
u belive so.
Over 50% of marriages end in divorce
Over 50% of households in america are single individuals
do u believe this is a coincidence...and if u wanna use the fact the
there is "almost 50% still married" do u really believe they are happy
marriages???????????????????this isnt the brady bunch

WHAT DO YOU THINK HAPPENED, WISPER?

I laugh when I am nervouse. I do not know if anything happend but that
is not the point. Why would they add each other and not tell me if they
did not have anything to hide?

why do you think they did that,?

Honestly I do not know. She said it was just because she wanted somebody
to talk to. But then why did she not tell me?

do you think there is something wrong there?
is she your friend?

Thought she was. But does a true friend do something like this?

no, but maybe next time be careful how you choose your friends
and also the guy you where talking to, he was not sure about you
maybe, so do you think they are both to blame,?


or maybe nothing is happening, what ya think??

Something tells me he would never do anything to intetialy hurt me.
Thank you morena.

stop being delusional. the first sign a failing relationship
is...thinking the relationship is failing

Honey I think you're over reacting.It probobly didn't seem like a big
deal to them.But if it really bothers you,you two are dating right?What
is the #1 most important thing in ANY relationship? Communication. Tell
him that it bothered you.Ask him to explain but if after all that you
stil don't trust it.Fallow your heart.

So Whispers I have to ask you, are you asking us if it's wierd that you
have an Online BF that you have already committed to?

Or are you asking if it's wierd that you are jealous that two people are
chatting online and you didn't know about it?

But anyway, I think the answer to both of those questions are the same:
Yes both of these situations are Wierd...

BTW Was the "Friend" that you introduced a real friend or Cyber Friend?

Sorry... I don't understand the whole "online" bf/gf thingy. How can
ya' be datin' someone ya' havent actually looked into they eyes of...
havent embraced or kissed the lips of... True love can be found
anywhere... but can never become anything if it remains a "fantasy"...
if one gets caught up in such an illusion... it can prevent you from
goin' out into the real world and finding someone you can not only see,
but feel. We are human... we NEED to be felt.

OK if you are online boyfriend/girlfriend, then I am assuming you have
not seen one another and there for you cant really know this person very
well, Why would this bother you? I say work on your self esteem issues
darlin as if that is bother you it will not last to much longer,
I might be totally wrong and if I am I apologize now. LET IT GO~

I'm partially with you there Shagna,still he should have told you at
least whisper. I know I would've.