Topic: I dont want to hurt you
Danh67's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:36 PM
Why do the statements I dont want to hurt you or I am not trying to be
cold always start off something that hurts and is cold. How can someone
say I love you then hurt you more then anyone else? Why is it that those
you trust the most are then ones that violate that trust most often.
Okay no I am not bitter but I wonder if anyone else is honest when they
say I love you or am I just living in a gream world and thats how
everyone is?

FedMan's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:40 PM
why would someone say I don't want to hurt you, then say something like
I Love You, or I bought you a brand new car? of course whatever they say
is gonna hurt that's why they said it to start with, so you'd know what
was coming was gonna hurt but they didn't want it to.

dizzydean5's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:42 PM
i learn thats there is all differnt kinds of love what you think is love
is not what some one ulse thinks of love just try never to be mad if it
dose not work out

dizzydean5's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:44 PM
thers no way to not break a heart but hopfully it makes you stronger

dizzydean5's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:44 PM
in the long run

dizzydean5's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:45 PM
ok dan

SouthernDoll29's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:49 PM
Hey,Just wonting to know if you have ever heard a song,if you dont
listen to country you proably havent heard it but it is by Jason Aldean
the name of it is "why" and its the answer to every question like that,I
used to ask myself the same things,but you are right its all just a
fairy tale that dont ever come true!! Later Rose

toughshot_n_kc's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:49 PM
the peopleyou love are the closes to u so they arepass your protected
barrier that why the things they say and do sometime hurt so much more
than what someone on the out side of those defenses

dizzydean5's photo
Thu 01/25/07 06:50 PM
thats not true love takes work just like a job

lily38's photo
Thu 01/25/07 07:24 PM
I think they do it as a way of easing their minds....cushion the
blow.....the lull before the storm.....huh

MikeMontana's photo
Thu 01/25/07 08:05 PM
It all starts out that way doesnt it? I mean one day we're all cozy and
comfy, minding our own business and then, WHAM we're evicted into the
cold, done nothing wrong, and some stranger is smacking us on the rear.
Happy Birth Day.

It doesnt take long until we hear another stranger tell us "This wont
hurt a bit" just before we're jabbed. Repeatedly.

Seems like we never get enough.

PublicAnimalNo9's photo
Thu 01/25/07 08:12 PM
welllll...one way to maybe halve the number of times it happens is to
maybe NOT ask questions ya just might not wanna hear the answer to. lol

forrest07's photo
Thu 01/25/07 08:49 PM
NO^no^NO^ IT'S TIME TO LET YOU KNOW A WOMAN CAN SAY THAT SHE LOVE YOU
ALDAY" BUT I WILL KNOW BY THE WAY SHE MAKE ME FEEL A MAN LIKE MYSELF, I
WILL SHOW HER MY LOVE BYE THE THINGS I DO. SHE WILL KNOW LIKE I WILL
KNOW "..NO GAMES OR LIES"" IN MY LIFE, FEEL IF SHE LOVE YOU"NOT WHAT SHE
SAY