Topic: Why is it..
robert1652's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:31 AM


what do you mean he flipped out on you? what did he do?

flip out meaning they find the most stupid reasons to stop talking to me..wether it be my wheelchair which they know about from the first second,or the fact that I can't work which I also tell them from the beginning,could be the fact that I tell them that I'm not gonna take care of a guy with my disability moneylaugh.I don't know..but they ALL flip.


May be you tell them too much may be on the first date you need to decide if you want to see them second time and that should be the end of the date
ask any date expert

franshade's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:31 AM
dont tell them you like them - keep it a secret
flowerforyou

Tanyall83's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:32 AM

This could be why I avoid men.....noway laugh noway


I tend to agree.....noway laugh

AdventurousOne's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:33 AM

That EVERYTIME I start liking a guy they flip out on me?..every freakin time..I just don't get it..what the hell is wrong with me?sad..Yup..it's venting time..sorry.


WTH happened this time Lady???? You were just fine the other day. noway :tongue: flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:34 AM

That EVERYTIME I start liking a guy they flip out on me?..every freakin time..I just don't get it..what the hell is wrong with me?sad..Yup..it's venting time..sorry.



1 out of 4 people in the USA is MENTALLY UNSTABLE!

Think of your 3 CLOSEST FRIENDS. If they appear to be NORMAL, YOU are the ONE! (jk!) laugh

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LadyOfMagic's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:36 AM



what do you mean he flipped out on you? what did he do?

flip out meaning they find the most stupid reasons to stop talking to me..wether it be my wheelchair which they know about from the first second,or the fact that I can't work which I also tell them from the beginning,could be the fact that I tell them that I'm not gonna take care of a guy with my disability moneylaugh.I don't know..but they ALL flip.


May be you tell them too much may be on the first date you need to decide if you want to see them second time and that should be the end of the date
ask any date expert

Well..I don't really have to TELL them about my chair..If they have sight they know about it already..lol.Plus I am an honest person..I am not gonna hide things about myself from people,They should know what they're getting into before they get into it..I just wish that guys weren't so stuck on what the outside of the package looks like and started thinking about what might be on the inside of it.

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:37 AM
If someone flips out over things like that than i say "good riddens"

AdventurousOne's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:37 AM


This could be why I avoid men.....noway laugh noway


I tend to agree.....noway laugh


Women are worse..ask my lesbian friend. She'll tell you all about it. drinker :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou

AdventurousOne's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:41 AM




what do you mean he flipped out on you? what did he do?

flip out meaning they find the most stupid reasons to stop talking to me..wether it be my wheelchair which they know about from the first second,or the fact that I can't work which I also tell them from the beginning,could be the fact that I tell them that I'm not gonna take care of a guy with my disability moneylaugh.I don't know..but they ALL flip.


May be you tell them too much may be on the first date you need to decide if you want to see them second time and that should be the end of the date
ask any date expert

Well..I don't really have to TELL them about my chair..If they have sight they know about it already..lol.Plus I am an honest person..I am not gonna hide things about myself from people,They should know what they're getting into before they get into it..I just wish that guys weren't so stuck on what the outside of the package looks like and started thinking about what might be on the inside of it.


Sorry Lady, I understand what you are saying...but that's just wishful thinking in most cases. Guys and gals are the same..visuals do matter to most, but guys are just worse about it. God made men "visual", so its something that will basically never change. You just have to hopefully find one that has a mind more powerful than his wanker. noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

docburneraz's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:42 AM
Traditionally speaking men are hunters. Visually oriented. We cant help it. Its in our genetic/social programming. Women on the other hand are the nurturers. Traditionally speaking of course.......:wink: The real problem is EGO. If we werent so obsessed with the mating ritual or sex or both in some cases, there wouldnt be an issue. But once again, we cant help it. Its our genetic/social programming.

Tanyall83's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:42 AM



This could be why I avoid men.....noway laugh noway


I tend to agree.....noway laugh


Women are worse..ask my lesbian friend. She'll tell you all about it. drinker :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou


well then it seems being single is a safe bet according to that...bigsmile laugh

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:43 AM




This could be why I avoid men.....noway laugh noway


I tend to agree.....noway laugh


Women are worse..ask my lesbian friend. She'll tell you all about it. drinker :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou


well then it seems being single is a safe bet according to that...bigsmile laugh
I've decided I'm a "Non practicing lesbian" that way I don't have to mess with either one of umlaugh laugh

docburneraz's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:45 AM
we get our "feelings" hurt when we get rejected. Wah. Oh woe is me. Got news for ya. Youre probably twice as intelligent as most of these idiots. So get over it. Dont be a slave to your emotions or ego. Live long and prosperlaugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:45 AM





what do you mean he flipped out on you? what did he do?

flip out meaning they find the most stupid reasons to stop talking to me..wether it be my wheelchair which they know about from the first second,or the fact that I can't work which I also tell them from the beginning,could be the fact that I tell them that I'm not gonna take care of a guy with my disability moneylaugh.I don't know..but they ALL flip.


May be you tell them too much may be on the first date you need to decide if you want to see them second time and that should be the end of the date
ask any date expert

Well..I don't really have to TELL them about my chair..If they have sight they know about it already..lol.Plus I am an honest person..I am not gonna hide things about myself from people,They should know what they're getting into before they get into it..I just wish that guys weren't so stuck on what the outside of the package looks like and started thinking about what might be on the inside of it.


Sorry Lady, I understand what you are saying...but that's just wishful thinking in most cases. Guys and gals are the same..visuals do matter to most, but guys are just worse about it. God made men "visual", so its something that will basically never change. You just have to hopefully find one that has a mind more powerful than his wanker. noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

God didn't make men visual..he made them stupid..One guy I was with years ago always..and I mean ALWAYS told me that he know 100% sure that there were 2 people on earth that loved him..his grandmother and ME..yet when his mom said dump her..he did..the jerk!..but that actually turned out well cuz he's a drunk now.laugh

docburneraz's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:47 AM
I agree with one. Think is one think but doing is another. After all talk IS cheap

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:48 AM
how long were u talking to him?

docburneraz's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:48 AM
Thats just one example. Got another? One example does not a pattern make

docburneraz's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:50 AM
Keep in mind that this is the internet. Not Reality.

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:50 AM

Thats just one example. Got another? One example does not a pattern make
wise you are laugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:50 AM

how long were u talking to him?

The one whose mama told to stop talking to me you mean?..I wasted a year on him.