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Topic: ...Have you got the guts to look in the mirror.....
downhomechik's photo
Wed 04/23/08 06:17 AM
I say, "that's ok" when I'm thinking..."that's NOT ok!!!!" Working on it.

celtic_kitten's photo
Wed 04/23/08 06:24 AM
i have a tendency to just accept people treating me poorly and will even justify their behavior... it makes me angry with myself and with them, which eventually leads to arguments instead of addressing the behavior initially... i also have a strange tendency to fall for lazy guys who are not willing to do anything to help maintain our home - i am somewhat OCD about cleaning and thus when they will NEVER clean anything it just annoys me... granted i am sure i will come behind them and redo it anyway, but at least pretend to try to do something grumble

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/23/08 10:17 AM

i have a tendency to just accept people treating me poorly and will even justify their behavior... it makes me angry with myself and with them, which eventually leads to arguments instead of addressing the behavior initially... i also have a strange tendency to fall for lazy guys who are not willing to do anything to help maintain our home - i am somewhat OCD about cleaning and thus when they will NEVER clean anything it just annoys me... granted i am sure i will come behind them and redo it anyway, but at least pretend to try to do something grumble



..here here..drinker

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Wed 04/23/08 10:23 AM
I havent looked in the mirror yet.......but Im pretty sure there is a unicorn hair do somewhere in there....

noway

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/23/08 10:38 AM

I havent looked in the mirror yet.......but Im pretty sure there is a unicorn hair do somewhere in there....

noway





...noway noway noway WTF......was that a joke ?????huh huh huh

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Wed 04/23/08 10:40 AM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Wed 04/23/08 10:40 AM


I havent looked in the mirror yet.......but Im pretty sure there is a unicorn hair do somewhere in there....

noway



...noway noway noway WTF......was that a joke ?????huh huh huh
Ya it was......well not really!!! I am pretty sure there is a hair do fiasco in there somewhere. Where are your happy pills?huh laugh laugh



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Wed 04/23/08 10:46 AM
oK......My name is Gypsy and Im a CHEESEAHOLIC!!!noway

HAPPY NOWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!grumble grumble grumble

amerken's photo
Wed 04/23/08 10:49 AM
lmao laugh laugh laugh

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/23/08 10:53 AM
Edited by wickedlluccy on Wed 04/23/08 10:55 AM



I havent looked in the mirror yet.......but Im pretty sure there is a unicorn hair do somewhere in there....

noway



...noway noway noway WTF......was that a joke ?????huh huh huh
Ya it was......well not really!!! I am pretty sure there is a hair do fiasco in there somewhere. Where are your happy pills?huh laugh laugh




...huh huh huh hee hee hee apparently you stole everybody's today....noway


...valleygirl esapeeeee.......how originalglasses

Dragoness's photo
Wed 04/23/08 10:55 AM
Edited by Dragoness on Wed 04/23/08 10:57 AM
I have been working on myself for the past 4 years, well longer but those have been mainly for my self image and self esteem because they were a problem for me before. I am now working on breaking my walls down to trust someone close to my heart again. It is a struggle for me everyday. My addictive behavior shows up in cigs and food. The food one I am working on, not eating for comfort, eating for hunger.

My problems stem all the way back to being sexually abused at the age of 5 or so. So I have had a lifelong journey with working the thru the residual effects of it. Also I have an emotionally closed off mom. She doesn't show emotion well so I never learned how to be emotionally attached healthily anyways.

Codependency has been an issue throughout most of my relationships, I have also been working on breaking that cycle.

I think I am doing great though, if the wall comes down then my next relationship will be closer and more fulfilling.

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/23/08 10:56 AM
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou ...awareness is half the battle...flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

nonchalantwendy's photo
Wed 04/23/08 03:05 PM
OOps I just broke mine.......noway noway noway bigsmile

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