It seems like everyone I talk to has or is going through the process of starting over at a point in our lives where we expected to be over the hump as relationships go. Anybody else totally confused as to why this is so weird? If you've got it figured out...please give me some advice. If you're confused too, please voice your concerns. I am trying everything people suggest but I just do know how to get back in the game...please reply...Thanks!

Im going to achieve my destiny in this lifetime I can feel it

I understand.... I had no idea years ago that my life would be like this today. I have no advice, though....... It sure seems harder now!!

you're intimate encounter is coming soon

Enjoy the ride. Life is cyclical.

If you didn't end up where you are now, you never would have gotten the chance to meet me.

When you are looking everybody pick's up on it. You LOOK desperate. People tend to shy away from you because you seem needy. Human nature I guess. Everybody want's a person with confidence and strength. Go under the radar. Stop looking so hard and have fun with ppl around you right now.

Or, go on a crappy date! That'll fix thing's for ya lol.

At 18 I never thought this would be my reality at 38. I have spent some time getting to know myself again but just don't seem to fit in the single world today. I'm not complaining about my life...I just realize alot of people are in the same situation I am in and most seem to think they are the only one...it seems like are just trying to pretend they understand how it works instead of speaking up and voicing the concerns a few of us are trying to own up to...I admit it...I don't have it all figured out and men really confuse me. But, I know we confuse them too...

I realized that I had a pattern of picking guys who were not good for me. Sometimes it is better to just be alone. Maybe Go out with friends or make new ones. Is there really a reason to rush into a relationship.
Right now I am too busy to be in a relationship. Just wouldn't be fair to start something when I have no time.

Yeah, I have a habit of jumping in with both feet. I need to cut that out! Relax, chill, take it easy and learn to have fun.

it does get tougher as we get older.............trying to adjust, that's hard also..........

try jumping in with 1 foot....easier to bounce back............

Yea it was easier when I was 18...Hit 'em with a club and drag 'em back to the cave