Topic: Dealing w/Lifes Burdens
brwnkimba's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:45 AM
A lecturer, when explaining stress
management to an audience,
Raised a glass of water and asked,
"How heavy is this glass of water?"

Answers called out ranged from 20g to 500g.

The lecturer replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter.
It depends on how long you try to hold it.

If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem.

If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm.

If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance.

In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."

He continued,

"And that's the way it is with stress management.

If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later,
As the burden becomes increasingly heavy,

We won't be able to carry on.

As with the glass of water,

You have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again.

When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden.

So, before you return home tonight, put the burden of work down.

Don't carry it home. You can pick it up tomorrow."

So, my friend, put down anything that may be a burden to you right now.

Don't pick it up again until after you've rested a while.

Here are some great ways of dealing with the burdens of life:

* Accept that some days you're the pigeon,
And some days you're the statue.

* Always keep your words soft and sweet,
Just in case you have to eat them.

* Always read stuff that will make you look good
In case you die in the middle of it.

* Drive carefully. It's not only cars that can be
Recalled by their maker.

* If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.< SPAN>

* If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again,
It was probably worth it.

* It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply be kind to others.

* Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time,
Because then you won't have a leg to stand on.

* Nobody cares if you can't dance well.
Just get up and dance.

* Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late.

* The second mouse gets the cheese.

* When everything's coming your way,
You're in the wrong lane.

* Birthdays are good for you.
The more you have, the longer you live.

* You may be only one person in the world,
But you may also be the world to one person.

* Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.

* We could learn a lot from crayons... Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names, and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box.


*A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.

Have an awesome day and know that someone has thought about you today...I did.

--
If we allow another person the same
reasoning that we use for ourselves,
We will be less judgmental toward others.


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Thu 04/17/08 07:48 AM
If we allow another person the same
reasoning that we use for ourselves,
We will be less judgmental toward others.








right on

franshade's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:49 AM
thank you for sharing - great wordsflowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:49 AM
Thank you, that was a great read!happy

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:50 AM
I just saved it in my fav.'s.

LightVoice's photo
Thu 04/17/08 08:01 AM
Amen flowerforyou

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Thu 04/17/08 08:01 AM
Beautiful words of wisdom.Thx!:wink: flowerforyou drinker

1956CLEO's photo
Thu 04/17/08 08:01 AM
That was really nice!

sweetbilly's photo
Thu 04/17/08 08:06 AM
AWESOME words of wisdom and encouragement - Thank you!

Laugh a lot. Smile often.

~ Billy

LAMom's photo
Thu 04/17/08 08:43 AM
:heart: Kimba :heart:

brwnkimba's photo
Thu 04/17/08 09:26 AM
:heart:Blessings to all and be patient, this is but only one key to unlock the doors of our togetherness:heart:

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 04/17/08 10:03 AM
Cool

SCURLOCK's photo
Thu 04/17/08 10:41 AM
:smile:

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Thu 04/17/08 10:45 AM
thank god for simple cliches that provide instant "feel-good" excuses for me when I just cant deal with life anymore...
drinker

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Thu 04/17/08 04:49 PM
So true...do ya mind if I copy & send that out to some friends? It may even end up printed and hung up somewhere in our office!

creationsfire's photo
Thu 04/17/08 04:59 PM
Edited by creationsfire on Thu 04/17/08 05:00 PM
this was nice. I copied and pasted it into an email and sent it to my dad.

brwnkimba's photo
Thu 04/17/08 05:05 PM
Thank you and no I don't mind at all, please spread as much positivity as you possibly can.:heart:

blonderockermom's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:56 PM
Wow..That was great!!..drinker flowerforyou