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Dont bash women it not every girl that does this just select few
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Gosh, that sucks for you, I know you want to do the right thing for the kids but there comes a time when you need to step back. Tell her you will pay the storage for 2 more months but after that she is on her own. Maybe that will give her time to get serious about getting an income.
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Dont bash women it not every girl that does this just select few |
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Gosh, that sucks for you, I know you want to do the right thing for the kids but there comes a time when you need to step back. Tell her you will pay the storage for 2 more months but after that she is on her own. Maybe that will give her time to get serious about getting an income. I did that three months ago |
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Dont bash women it not every girl that does this just select few sorry just crazy night |
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i know that she yells at me for not calling when she gets like this but every time i do callwhen shes pissed she wont let me talk to them or hangs up the phone 
 I love sarcasm it is the best...
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Gosh, that sucks for you, I know you want to do the right thing for the kids but there comes a time when you need to step back. Tell her you will pay the storage for 2 more months but after that she is on her own. Maybe that will give her time to get serious about getting an income.
I did that three months ago Well honey, then STOP being her cash flow. I am sorry but some people choose to play guilt head games with ex's and it's just wrong. Her step kid's storage is not your responsibility, what about their dad? |
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Dont bash women it not every girl that does this just select few sorry just crazy night |
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Gosh, that sucks for you, I know you want to do the right thing for the kids but there comes a time when you need to step back. Tell her you will pay the storage for 2 more months but after that she is on her own. Maybe that will give her time to get serious about getting an income.
I did that three months ago Well honey, then STOP being her cash flow. I am sorry but some people choose to play guilt head games with ex's and it's just wrong. Her step kid's storage is not your responsibility, what about their dad? Hes the piece hasnt seen or called in 13 yrs and then decided to quit paying his child support becuse the order was up didnt start paying again till this month |
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Gosh, that sucks for you, I know you want to do the right thing for the kids but there comes a time when you need to step back. Tell her you will pay the storage for 2 more months but after that she is on her own. Maybe that will give her time to get serious about getting an income.
I did that three months ago Well honey, then STOP being her cash flow. I am sorry but some people choose to play guilt head games with ex's and it's just wrong. Her step kid's storage is not your responsibility, what about their dad? Hes the piece hasnt seen or called in 13 yrs and then decided to quit paying his child support becuse the order was up didnt start paying again till this month I was a single parent as were my friends. I can tell you from experience when we needed cash we were able to get it. Can she get a part time job? How about yard sales, they are a gret quick cash flow. Can she combine all the storage into one unit? |
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Shes got 2 degrees and no job well not yet it hasnt started yet been waiting for three weeks to start
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i know that she yells at me for not calling when she gets like this but every time i do callwhen shes pissed she wont let me talk to them or hangs up the phone
don't make me hurt you!!!! I was glad to see her as well.. You know I was very worried.. |
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Sounds like she may just need an incentive to get a job then. Any job is better than none. I realize folks can get down on their luck, heck I have been there too. Does she know when the job will start? Lashing out at you is not the right way to handle things. She should be thankful that you have helped her out so much.
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shes brilliant bry a computer genius to say the least she just doesnt like the pay scale ive told her lower cost of living = lower wages
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Thu 04/17/08 06:16 AM
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i know that she yells at me for not calling when she gets like this but every time i do callwhen shes pissed she wont let me talk to them or hangs up the phone
 hey now... watchit 
I was always sensitive to my ex for the kids sake. Even when he didn't deserve it. And I didn't do it just because the kids need their dad. I felt for him, cuz he needed them too. That's the way it should be. A cup of mercy and grace all around. 
I feel for all the dads out there that get the sh*t even when they are paying child support and loving their kids. It's not right. But there are a lot of us moms who do the right thing by them too.. 
just saw rob's other comment too .. we figured you was jokin' cuz we ladies on JSH RAWK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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just got an email from the ex wife stating what a piece i was for telling her that I was not going to pay her storage this month. How dare I say i have to pick up on her slack. Nevermind the fact that everytime she calls when she doesnt pay it and i get out my wallet so she doenst lose my stepkids stuff. For instance since November i had been paying it for her and now im done paying it and im a piece for that. I don't blame you a bit. She needs to pay her own bills |
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