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i think the difference is this...you are meeting...and maybe having sex with high hopes it will work out...even if it dont...my idea of a player is some one who knows what thay are doing...and are dishonest in what they are after...so you feel used...but when things dont work ouut with high hopes...you might be hurt...but not feeling used...
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internet dating sites give some the ability to live out a kind of twisted fantasy whether it's to be the "playa", the "incredibly hot MILF", or the "barely legal nineteen year old tart".
in the end, it's not about "teaching" anyone how to be anything- it adds a kind of anonymity that can be replaced with a false persona. |
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 Im not a player. Im just looking for an intimate encounter
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 OK, so IM unlucky at love...
NOW,,,how many TIMES someone is unlucky at love,,,,,,COULD MAKE THEM LOOK, like just a player,,,RIGHT? Do you want to look like a Player or do you want to be a player? What do you care what you look like? Perhaps you should get to know a person before you jump in the sack with them of you want a relationship. If you just want to have sex with them, then learn how to be good at what you do and learn how to be a player. Try this: www.love-pot.com |
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 Terry, do you want to be considered a player?? 
If you are serious about finding a relationship, you aren't a player. And just because you have had some intimacies that didn't go any further, shouldn't mean you look like a player. But some people will make up their minds that if you have had more than a certain number of partners, you already are one. |
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Im not a player. Im just looking for an intimate encounter
see thats the difference...lol...your honest about what you want...your not saying what some wants to hear to get there.... |
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Edited by
AdventurousOne
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Wed 04/16/08 10:21 PM
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Don't really know what ur askin? 
Do YOU think that internet dating,,,TEACHES YOU to BE or ACT like a PLAYER?? But you had sex with them. WHATS THE DIFFERENCE between THAT and what a PLAYER does??? Wait a sec. You don;t seem to know what a "player" is. So let me splain it to joo Lucy. A "player" (both men and women) that are only out after a sexual conquest. Not for anything meaningful of a relationship. Now from what you described, you are just talking about two poeple seeing each other, seeing if a relationship develops, has had sex, but things just don't work out. Nothing wrong with that. Both consenting adults, both attempting for a relationship...not any problems in any areas that I can see. As to the does the internet make people want to be "players'. No, if that is thier mentality and drive, they will do it anywhere. Actually the internet is a dual edged sword. It has its downsides, but it also has some upsides as well. can be a great way to learn how to hone communication skills and enables you to get to know "the person" in ways without having to be face to face, so there can be less stress, especially for those who may be a bit shy. So you wrap it up and take it home...turn the oven to 350 and cook for 45 min, then take off the first page and set to broil until its golden brown. serve warm.  
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my thoughts--
if you are a player, have player tendencies, want to be a player, turn out to be a player--- you would have without or without internet access just like someone saying a person murdered or something because of TV...that person would have done it with or without watching it on TV. make sense??? |
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Terry, do you want to be considered a player??
If you are serious about finding a relationship, you aren't a player. And just because you have had some intimacies that didn't go any further, shouldn't mean you look like a player. But some people will make up their minds that if you have had more than a certain number of partners, you already are one. And I will NOT lie about my time here, or in outside life. And because of MY TRUTH, I have been seen in THEIR eyes, as a possible PLAYER... I know we are ALL grown aduilts here and WE have the ability to be sexual or not to,,,but HOW can ANYONE trully know and FEEL anothers COMPLETE love w/o making LOVE with them? |
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Terry, do you want to be considered a player??
If you are serious about finding a relationship, you aren't a player. And just because you have had some intimacies that didn't go any further, shouldn't mean you look like a player. But some people will make up their minds that if you have had more than a certain number of partners, you already are one. And I will NOT lie about my time here, or in outside life. And because of MY TRUTH, I have been seen in THEIR eyes, as a possible PLAYER... I know we are ALL grown aduilts here and WE have the ability to be sexual or not to,,,but HOW can ANYONE trully know and FEEL anothers COMPLETE love w/o making LOVE with them? so many other ways to feel someone's complete love!! to say you cannot would be to say that you do not love your best friends, children, parents...etc i feel their complete love--- |
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Terry, do you want to be considered a player??
If you are serious about finding a relationship, you aren't a player. And just because you have had some intimacies that didn't go any further, shouldn't mean you look like a player. But some people will make up their minds that if you have had more than a certain number of partners, you already are one. And I will NOT lie about my time here, or in outside life. And because of MY TRUTH, I have been seen in THEIR eyes, as a possible PLAYER... I know we are ALL grown aduilts here and WE have the ability to be sexual or not to,,,but HOW can ANYONE trully know and FEEL anothers COMPLETE love w/o making LOVE with them? so many other ways to feel someone's complete love!! to say you cannot would be to say that you do not love your best friends, children, parents...etc i feel their complete love--- |
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Edited by
nurjoyce
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Wed 04/16/08 10:38 PM
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Terry, do you want to be considered a player??
If you are serious about finding a relationship, you aren't a player. And just because you have had some intimacies that didn't go any further, shouldn't mean you look like a player. But some people will make up their minds that if you have had more than a certain number of partners, you already are one. And I will NOT lie about my time here, or in outside life. And because of MY TRUTH, I have been seen in THEIR eyes, as a possible PLAYER... I know we are ALL grown aduilts here and WE have the ability to be sexual or not to,,,but HOW can ANYONE trully know and FEEL anothers COMPLETE love w/o making LOVE with them? so many other ways to feel someone's complete love!! to say you cannot would be to say that you do not love your best friends, children, parents...etc i feel their complete love--- i did and it lasted 14 years and three kids!!!! we did not have sex until our honeymoon |
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Terry, do you want to be considered a player??
If you are serious about finding a relationship, you aren't a player. And just because you have had some intimacies that didn't go any further, shouldn't mean you look like a player. But some people will make up their minds that if you have had more than a certain number of partners, you already are one. And I will NOT lie about my time here, or in outside life. And because of MY TRUTH, I have been seen in THEIR eyes, as a possible PLAYER... I know we are ALL grown aduilts here and WE have the ability to be sexual or not to,,,but HOW can ANYONE trully know and FEEL anothers COMPLETE love w/o making LOVE with them? so many other ways to feel someone's complete love!! to say you cannot would be to say that you do not love your best friends, children, parents...etc i feel their complete love--- i did and it lasted 14 years and three kids!!!! nervious and stuff,, I mean RIGHT NOW could you with ALL your lifes experiences,,,,marry a dude you NEVER had sex with?? |
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no,,,i dont think so,,,,you will be who you want to be
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players are every wheres,not just on dating sites.dating sites just gives players more options
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There are so many different kinds of complete love, such as what Joyce is talking about, best friends, family and such, but I do understand what you are trying to say T.
I was accused of being a player by my sister, last year, because I have tried for relationships after my marriage broke up. She was trying to be all high and mighty that she has only been with two men. Until I reminded her that she had a baby by the second man----while still married to the first and tried to pass that child off as her husband's. I do not consider myself a player (and yes, Jon knows about this conversation with my sister) and I don't think I should be considered one. People will think what they will, no matter what. The only person's opinion that matters----is yours. |
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Terry, do you want to be considered a player??
If you are serious about finding a relationship, you aren't a player. And just because you have had some intimacies that didn't go any further, shouldn't mean you look like a player. But some people will make up their minds that if you have had more than a certain number of partners, you already are one. And I will NOT lie about my time here, or in outside life. And because of MY TRUTH, I have been seen in THEIR eyes, as a possible PLAYER... I know we are ALL grown aduilts here and WE have the ability to be sexual or not to,,,but HOW can ANYONE trully know and FEEL anothers COMPLETE love w/o making LOVE with them? so many other ways to feel someone's complete love!! to say you cannot would be to say that you do not love your best friends, children, parents...etc i feel their complete love--- i did and it lasted 14 years and three kids!!!! nervious and stuff,, I mean RIGHT NOW could you with ALL your lifes experiences,,,,marry a dude you NEVER had sex with?? i was i was 28 when i got married- not young!!!! depends how well i knew them, i would not by just meeting online or on the telephone. |
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There are so many different kinds of complete love, such as what Joyce is talking about, best friends, family and such, but I do understand what you are trying to say T. I was accused of being a player by my sister, last year, because I have tried for relationships after my marriage broke up. She was trying to be all high and mighty that she has only been with two men. Until I reminded her that she had a baby by the second man----while still married to the first and tried to pass that child off as her husband's. I do not consider myself a player (and yes, Jon knows about this conversation with my sister) and I don't think I should be considered one. People will think what they will, no matter what. The only person's opinion that matters----is yours. I agree my opinion: Being a player should not be based on how many people you have sex with-- more so the reason or intent. For example- someone with very low self esteem and considers himself/herself as ugly might have sex with a few to make him/her feel "beautiful"... is that a player? |
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There are so many different kinds of complete love, such as what Joyce is talking about, best friends, family and such, but I do understand what you are trying to say T. I was accused of being a player by my sister, last year, because I have tried for relationships after my marriage broke up. She was trying to be all high and mighty that she has only been with two men. Until I reminded her that she had a baby by the second man----while still married to the first and tried to pass that child off as her husband's. I do not consider myself a player (and yes, Jon knows about this conversation with my sister) and I don't think I should be considered one. People will think what they will, no matter what. The only person's opinion that matters----is yours. I agree my opinion: Being a player should not be based on how many people you have sex with-- more so the reason or intent. For example- someone with very low self esteem and considers himself/herself as ugly might have sex with a few to make him/her feel "beautiful"... is that a player? |
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You got it!!
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