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Topic: Stupid Boy.
cdanny47's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:38 PM
OK,,,, I understand now,,,, Yes that is bring an azz,,, So I did miss the point and lose that fu*ker and fast,,,, Sorry I didn't catch on alittle quicker,,,,,flowerforyou

rebkel's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:39 PM

If his interest in her was a natural progression ie...he spent time with her ect ect. then yes, you shouldn't get in the middle.

But he is putting you there, and that's not what friends do in circumstances such as the one you have explained.

I have a ton of guy friends, and whatver my history with them...be it romantic or not...they don't date my friends, and I don't date theirs.

This guy is very selfish and self centered. LOSE HIM FROM YOUR SPEED DIAL. Kick him to the curb on trash day.




That's exactly how I feel. If he really must date her, fine, but certainly don't come to me with that information. Not to mention he was asking me what kind of flowers she likes. I'm sorry, but I'm absolutely not going to aid him in getting her to go out with him.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:41 PM

That's exactly how I feel. If he really must date her, fine, but certainly don't come to me with that information. Not to mention he was asking me what kind of flowers she likes. I'm sorry, but I'm absolutely not going to aid him in getting her to go out with him.


Besides the fact that I am sure you and your roomate are friends, or at least friendly. Maybe sit and tell her everything that has happened then she can make the decision.... and it might shed light into her friendship also....

rebkel's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:43 PM

Besides the fact that I am sure you and your roomate are friends, or at least friendly. Maybe sit and tell her everything that has happened then she can make the decision.... and it might shed light into her friendship also....


I was considering that. I think I'll wait though to see if he follows through on asking her out. I don't want to bring it up for no reason, ya know?

unsure's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:50 PM
I think I would be talking to my friend and making sure we have the understanding that she doesn't date someone that treated me like he is!! He is a total jerk and if I was you, I wouldn't want to date him or even be friends with this guy!!
I would make it perfectly clear to your roommate that you are not comfortable with her dating him. Its going to effect your friendship so why ruin what you have? I know that my friends and I have an understanding that we don't dare mess with anybody that someone use to like. There are certain rules to friendships you know!!

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