From the side!!! Always from the side!!!

What matters to me is the heart and soul of a man...

I have already found him.......

How else are you going to approach someone? If you suck at starting conversations, it just means you need to work on it more. :)

ok, mistake number 1... asking the ladies for advice on how to approach them. You see men and women view the dating scene differently. We speak different languages even.

But as i said in another forum i believe... Confidence is key. You pretty much have to be cool with who you are. Women pick up on emotional stability. Now how you portray confidence is pretty saying that you are spending more time being yourself instead of trying to win a woman's approval. Another thing everyone forgets is to take you time. I have been so guilty of this. A woman usually never tells a guy what she wants or what he should do. Instead they send signals. They are very subtle, and sometimes hard for a guy to spot. They need to pay attention. And most importantly when a guy sees one of these signals he should not jump all over it. In fact there is a story about something like this: There were two bulls standing at the top of a hill looking upon a bunch of cows grazing. One was old, the other young.

So be yourself regardless what she thinks. And Take your time. What the hell is the hurry?