Topic: scared..
butterflyxkisss's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:26 PM
I recently started seeing this guy and things have been going well. However, both he and I are rather cautious to get into anything serious because we're both scared to be hurt again based on past experiences. It seems like we're both reluctant to open up to each other, but on the few occasions we have opened up things have been wonderful. Should I just take things slow, try to be more open and see if he does the same.. I dunno..

Etrain's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:28 PM
open up...life is to shortdrinker

susanswt1's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:28 PM
Try your best to never hold onto the hurt from past relationships. Start fresh! Sounds like you're smitten to me... best wishes

wyatt1844's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:29 PM
Take things slow and easy, it takes time to learn how to trust again...JMHO

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:30 PM

I recently started seeing this guy and things have been going well. However, both he and I are rather cautious to get into anything serious because we're both scared to be hurt again based on past experiences. It seems like we're both reluctant to open up to each other, but on the few occasions we have opened up things have been wonderful. Should I just take things slow, try to be more open and see if he does the same.. I dunno..
devil hold a knife to his b@llsdevil

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:30 PM
I can't remember the whole saying but part of it is "love like you've never had your heartbroken before".... If you're not willing to forget past hurts then you're not ready to commit yourself to a relationship that could go somewhere... Let go and go with what your heart tells you is right...

iRon's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:30 PM
Go slow but remember no pain no gain.....

When in a person is uncomfortable in life it can mean many things but it may mean that you are growing as a person and being outside you comfort zone can be good.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:31 PM
Take it slow & follow your heart:smile:

Lady73401's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:32 PM
Its a leap of faith! Living in the past can hurt your future. Let it go and live for today and you will heal those old wounds. This could be THE ONE for you, and you don't want one another to suffer for past mistakes. A leap of faith! All you have to do is jump.

wyatt1844's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:33 PM
What do YOU want to do??

wanttachat's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:37 PM
if it was me I'd jump his bones and tie him up in my basement happy laugh laugh laugh laugh


then take it nice and slowdevil

brooke007's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:38 PM
expect nothing........

and hope for the best!!

flowerforyou flowerforyou

welder_one's photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:44 PM
Edited by welder_one on Sun 04/13/08 08:45 PM
ummm... wow...

its hard for me to open up to anyone and not because of past hurts though. one thing that i have started learning that the more that i do, the more life is enjoyable to me...hope this helps. rome wasnt built in a day