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Topic: Ex wife
hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sun 04/13/08 01:10 PM
Wow, Im trying to figure out why you went anywhere near this woman in the first place. If a woman has multiple children by multiple men, that is a clear cut warning sign to go no where near that. Its either A. An insatiable biatch who you will never please. B. A broken woman with serious mental baggage. Since she packed the kids up and left, Im guessing you got a big serving of A. Yep, was thinking something similar. She obviously doesn't use any protection in her sexual relations also. To me, RED FLAG.

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Sun 04/13/08 01:17 PM
Ummm what about the people that knocked her up? Wow, she took you for the ride of a lifetime. If I were you, I wouldn't give her jack chit! Kittens right if your not the biological faather, you do have a leg to stand on. Don't be wasteing any time either. Good luck!

TonyV Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 422	Sun 04/13/08 04:30 PM
Hey there Akinyahalo,I'm a single dad whose had to fight for his children. My advise to you take her to court,They will order a dna test for the children.If you are not the father she will have to repay what you have payed her. GO TO COURT stand up for yourself and possibly your children.She can not keep you away from the children unless you're proven to be a threat. I encourage you to do all within your power no matter what it takes to be apart of those childrens lives.I say this in all respect a man has got to be man stand up for yours!!!

Akinyahalo Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 2442	Sun 04/13/08 07:21 PM
thanks everyone this is some good advice guess i should go to legal on monday

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Sun 04/13/08 07:35 PM
yup...the jag folks are who to see. They will run with the ball for you, and it will cost her all that has been sent to her. that is their sole purpose in life at this moment

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Mon 04/14/08 05:14 AM
I think that if you signed the birth certificate, your stuck! But you can always do a DNA test and prove you are not the father, but in some states that does not matter...you signed it. I think you might be stuck paying till that child is 18. So, you should get visitation rights if you have to pay child support. I totally agree, you were taken on a long ride by this woman. Why would you sign the birth certificate in the first place if you knew she wasn't your baby? I know, love is blind...but did you think about what if things don't work out? Good luck..I think you are going to need it!!

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Mon 04/14/08 05:40 AM
All Im gonna say is good luck, Imnot touchin the rest of what certain people wrote...

LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Mon 04/14/08 07:35 AM
All Im gonna say is good luck, Imnot touchin the rest of what certain people wrote... What she said!

daniel48706 Joined Fri 03/16/07 Posts: 8566	Sat 05/03/08 09:10 PM
Hey there Akinyahalo,I'm a single dad whose had to fight for his children. My advise to you take her to court,They will order a dna test for the children.If you are not the father she will have to repay what you have payed her. GO TO COURT stand up for yourself and possibly your children.She can not keep you away from the children unless you're proven to be a threat. I encourage you to do all within your power no matter what it takes to be apart of those childrens lives.I say this in all respect a man has got to be man stand up for yours!!! Depends on the state the original order is from. A lot of states, it does not matter who the dna father is; if you have signed the birth cirtificate, tehn you are saying that you are accepting responsibility for the child, and the state law dictates that everything is as if you did help create the child. However, if this is the case for him, then he DOES have parental rights and she can do nothing to stop them, nor can anyone else except a court of law.

daniel48706 Joined Fri 03/16/07 Posts: 8566	Sat 05/03/08 09:10 PM
yup...the jag folks are who to see. They will run with the ball for you, and it will cost her all that has been sent to her. that is their sole purpose in life at this moment JAG will not touch it as it is family court issue. They will not handle divorces either.