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Topic: What do you think about this article?
Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 04/13/08 09:58 AM Edited by Rapunzel on Sun 04/13/08 10:01 AM
This article pretty much reinforces what I already knew. All guys want is eye candy, & if they "settle" for less they will always be looking for something better. I can wait on a guy hand & foot, give him my paycheck, adore him, but I am never going to be pretty enough. They will take all I offer but they are looking for someone prettier the whole time. I bet a blind man will have a buddy rating chicks for him. He'd want to be seen with a hottie even if he couldn't see her himself. Men really are that shallow. that is true...many of them are... so we might as well please ourselves & God and not buy into the bulls---, cause much of it, is just that... but i do know that some awesome men are looking for true inner beauty, more than anything else.... good looks fade but the beauty of the heart doesn't but i have to admit...i have eyes, too and i really don't care what others think of my choices, there does have to be attraction on several levels... but i would rather have someone who is not as attractive in looks, anyday /// than some shallow good looking player... if he is going to love me with all his heart and be faithful & very monogamous to me... totally committed thru & thru ... i will take heart & soul & true honesty over good looks anyday...

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 04/13/08 10:06 AM
Rapunzel you really do live in a fairy tale. I am going back to my own story & "do it myself" I have lived without a rooster this long, & I have a bread machine now.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 04/13/08 10:07 AM
Rapunzel you really do live in a fairy tale. I am going back to my own story & "do it myself" I have lived without a rooster this long, & I have a bread machine now. sigh no sh!t. I cannot find a hen that is real, and fits what I am looking for, but I will not settle

Lady73401 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 47	Sun 04/13/08 10:28 AM
Rapunzel you really do live in a fairy tale. I am going back to my own story & "do it myself" I have lived without a rooster this long, & I have a bread machine now. sigh no sh!t. I cannot find a hen that is real, and fits what I am looking for, but I will not settle I agree. I will never settle again. I am what I am and will not change. Love me, like me, or hate me, it will either be your gain or your loss.

dolphin14 Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 1123	Sun 04/13/08 10:37 AM
all I know is , If you own a Harley,it don't matter if yer ugly or not .lol that is sooooo false.... harleys are not any man's ticket to any woman... i see alot of men who ride nice harleys, but most of them are a bunch of idiots... i'd rather ride my bicycle anyday than get on the back of those ego trippers bikes.. and believe me...it has happened /// it totally blew their minds that a lady wouldn't do backflips for them and be begging for a ride.... that is so sick and any chick who goes with just anyone just because he has a harley needs her head seriously examined she is not thinking straight why do girls think guys with bikes are cool? It seems like so much silliness to me. I don't know what it is,but men on harley's do get the women, why i haven't figured it out, other then the bad body image that women tend to mingle towards.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 04/13/08 10:40 AM
I have nothing against bikers, but I don't like bikes! So I automatically rule out bikers although I have met some really greta guys that ride Harleys. If his bike is part of his lifestyle I know I won't fit in. He'd want a lady to share that with.

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 04/13/08 10:41 AM
Rapunzel you really do live in a fairy tale. I am going back to my own story & "do it myself" I have lived without a rooster this long, & I have a bread machine now. my goodness..... litle red hen where did that comment come from ? I do not know you , nor do you know me... have you walked in my shoes at all? have you even spoken to me ever ? no, you have not... so, your opinion is just that ... an opinion. i'm sorry you are so bitter about men.... please don't take it out on others.... such a judgement ...

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 04/13/08 10:46 AM
Sorry Rapunzel I truly didn't mean to offend you. I typed off a smart Alec reply before thinking of how it might be taken. Yes I am bitter & with good reason.

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 04/13/08 10:46 AM Edited by Rapunzel on Sun 04/13/08 10:50 AM
all I know is , If you own a Harley,it don't matter if yer ugly or not .lol that is sooooo false.... harleys are not any man's ticket to any woman... i see alot of men who ride nice harleys, but most of them are a bunch of idiots... i'd rather ride my bicycle anyday than get on the back of those ego trippers bikes.. and believe me...it has happened /// it totally blew their minds that a lady wouldn't do backflips for them and be begging for a ride.... that is so sick and any chick who goes with just anyone just because he has a harley needs her head seriously examined she is not thinking straight why do girls think guys with bikes are cool? It seems like so much silliness to me. I don't know what it is,but men on harley's do get the women, why i haven't figured it out, other then the bad body image that women tend to mingle towards. that is not always true in fact many times it is not.... women with great intelligence see through the bulls--- and that is all it is.... but not many women who fall for harleys and the bad boys who ride them use their heads sorry to enlighten you , the truth hurts sometimes... i am not trying to hurt you but i have been through life a lot longer than most of you i have kids in their early 30's let's hope i know what is going on... and i do ..believe me...i do

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 04/13/08 10:55 AM
Sorry Rapunzel I truly didn't mean to offend you. I typed off a smart Alec reply before thinking of how it might be taken. Yes I am bitter & with good reason. i forgive you ... i have reasons to be bitter , too if i allow that emotion to live in me... i am not exempt here of heartbreak but we can't let it consume us... because... then we are a prisoner to that we have to break free of the stereotypical way of thinking and reacting to others... i wish you so well... i wish you the best that life has to offer....

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sun 04/13/08 11:02 AM
well if being a trophy is the key to success then I'll remain alone.As for the bike thing,not my way of life.I to could have bitterness towards men but I am raising a son so I have had to put aside my negativity and evaluate people on a one on one basis. Though if you spend the night your coffee will be put in a "to go " cup.