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Topic: just venting
stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Fri 04/11/08 07:02 PM
I just need to vent, thought I would come in here to do it...My girlfriend and I get along pretty well together, but how can you not when you only see each other for 5 hours a week. This week I got to see her for half an hour, awesome. I like her, but I may keep looking for someone else, she doesn't seem to be my ideal mate.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 04/11/08 07:03 PM
Can I say I told you so without sounding biotchy?

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Fri 04/11/08 07:04 PM
i see people i don't care for more than that...move on already.

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Fri 04/11/08 07:08 PM
and how many hours was she seeing anothe male friend? "get along little doggy" as the song says

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Fri 04/11/08 07:08 PM
I just need to vent, thought I would come in here to do it...My girlfriend and I get along pretty well together, but how can you not when you only see each other for 5 hours a week. This week I got to see her for half an hour, awesome. I like her, but I may keep looking for someone else, she doesn't seem to be my ideal mate. Stay with her if you like her, not because of how much time you spend with her, geez. The ideal mate is always there for you, and less consumed with their own life? Sure, there are plenty of those around. Go for it if that's what you really want.

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Fri 04/11/08 07:09 PM
You're not standing in a long line with a numbered ticket are you????? Wonder what an half hour is in dog time.... Seriously dude, pee on her leg if you have to..or not

crazy_lover Joined Tue 03/18/08 Posts: 444	Fri 04/11/08 07:10 PM
i agree move on

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Fri 04/11/08 07:15 PM
dump her

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 04/11/08 07:25 PM
This has been on ongoing thing with Steven... he really likes her.

dilligaf1981 Joined Fri 02/15/08 Posts: 308	Fri 04/11/08 07:36 PM


beccalee1980 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 2129	Fri 04/11/08 08:30 PM
Steven. I understand how hard it can be not getting to see the person you love as much as you would like. Believe me, I am right there with you. I only get to see my boyfriend once every two weeks...he lives almost three hours away and both of us are so busy that it's hard to see each other as often as we'd like to..so i know how you feel..it's hard..but if you really like her, try to find a way to make it work. It can work, my boyfriend and I make it work. there is hope. you just have to figure out whether or not the relationship is really worth it to you. Hope that helps. Becca

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 04/11/08 08:32 PM
Been a week since I saw someone who is in the same town. I think I might be going through withdrawl......LOL. No, not that bad, but I do miss seeing him.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Fri 04/11/08 08:34 PM
I haven't seen my feet in three years.i miss them.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Sat 04/12/08 12:52 PM
Steven. I understand how hard it can be not getting to see the person you love as much as you would like. Believe me, I am right there with you. I only get to see my boyfriend once every two weeks...he lives almost three hours away and both of us are so busy that it's hard to see each other as often as we'd like to..so i know how you feel..it's hard..but if you really like her, try to find a way to make it work. It can work, my boyfriend and I make it work. there is hope. you just have to figure out whether or not the relationship is really worth it to you. Hope that helps. Becca We live a half hour away, not far at all. I just want to see her, I miss her...not to sound like a *****, but this sucks

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 04/12/08 12:53 PM
Then quit whining and move on. Sounds like it's time...

beccalee1980 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 2129	Sat 04/12/08 01:48 PM
steven...oh..wow..you guys live pretty close then..so why don't you get to see each other more than you do? so if you don't mind my being nosey, if you guys live so close, why don't you get to see her more often? have you talked to her about how you feel about this? Becca

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sat 04/12/08 02:29 PM
Then quit whining and move on. Sounds like it's time... I agree

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Sun 04/13/08 02:34 PM
steven...oh..wow..you guys live pretty close then..so why don't you get to see each other more than you do? so if you don't mind my being nosey, if you guys live so close, why don't you get to see her more often? have you talked to her about how you feel about this? Becca She is going to grad school, so she does have homework to do, but she also has enough free time where she would be able to spend a couple more hours with me. I talked to her about seeing her more, and she acts like it's impossible, she is the only busy person in the world...I even mentioned reading a book while she is doing homework, she said that would work, but that was over a month ago, and that doesn't happen. This past week we got to see each other for a half hour and this week we may not even see each other at all, so basically it'll be 3 weeks without her. Not sure if I would call this a relationship. I want to be her boyfriend, be able to do things with her and do things for her, help her out when she needs it, be there for her and her be there for me.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Sun 04/13/08 02:36 PM
Steven. I understand how hard it can be not getting to see the person you love as much as you would like. Believe me, I am right there with you. I only get to see my boyfriend once every two weeks...he lives almost three hours away and both of us are so busy that it's hard to see each other as often as we'd like to..so i know how you feel..it's hard..but if you really like her, try to find a way to make it work. It can work, my boyfriend and I make it work. there is hope. you just have to figure out whether or not the relationship is really worth it to you. Hope that helps. Becca mines the same..wont see mine till next weekend ..then it will have been two weeks..but we find time to chat and text..if its worth then wait and things will get better...if not worth it move on

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sun 04/13/08 02:38 PM
Not sure if I would call this a relationship. I want to be her boyfriend, be able to do things with her and do things for her, help her out when she needs it, be there for her and her be there for me. Steven.... If you read a thread about this topic, about two other people.... What advice would you give and what would your thoughts be?